Am I right to assume this guy would’ve reached out if he was interested?

[Anonymous]

27F, I may sound entitled but from my gut feeling and experiences in life, I know how these things play out on the apps. That’s my only avenue bc I don’t have a social life, I use them very very casually. This has happened a few times where I ask if the guy wants to message on social media bc I don’t check the apps often, they or I give my account info, we add each other & I wait for them to message me. Sometimes they do, sometimes they don’t. From what I noticed in my life even if I take initiative & it usually doesn’t work out, it goes a bit further if the guy makes the first move. I asked a guy Wed about msging on social media bc I don’t check app often, add him on IG, he adds me back, views my story & likes a photo of my dog & I but doesn’t reach out? He views all my stories but never initiates? If by tomorrow he doesn’t reach out I’m unfollowing him

Yes

No

[OlderThanILook]

I would never contact a girl on social media first even if I really liked her. I'm absolutely done being rejected and treated like a desperate fuck. That doesn't mean I won't see where things go if she messages me first though.

[Imsmurter1]

Sounds too complicated so I said yes gl