Do you think my college professor is attracted to me?

[Anonymous]

We are close in age

I mean he is a nice friendly guy. Possible flirt energy. Maybe not with just me

But the first thing I noticed is that he’s always looking at me. Not staring but always shooting glances at me no matter where I am in the room. If he’s passing, across or if I’m just walking through the doors he’s looking and smiling.

He tries to subtly get close or stand close. Not inappropriate or sexual way… and not often. He was helping me with something. He was guiding my finger but he placed his hand gently on mine while doing so

Or he was like “I finally get to come over to you. How are you?”

He does look when other guys talk to me

[kylee2437]

Ahhh I had a professor like this only he would individually call me out on stuff purposely to get my attention and you could tell. If he’s close in age with you, it’s pretty possible. Even if he’s a professor, he’s still a human that can be attracted to people lol I don't know I was flattered when the professor that was attracted to me was attracted to me, but I never pursued lol

[Asker]

Do you think that’s attraction or him being friendly?

No I wouldn’t pursue it either and he wouldn’t either. He’s done nothing that made me uncomfortable

I’m 25 he's 32

[kylee2437]

Possible attraction but can’t really confirm it.

[Asker]

Oh well if you don’t think it’s total attraction then maybe it wasn’t

I remember dressing up for my birthday that happened to be on my class day. I usually dress down.. my friend said I looked cute and he saw me and smiled then looked down… after that he kinda avoided me the whole day vs when I’m not dressed up

[AmayaHairat]

Don't kid yourself... There are somethings that feel nice but are not meant to be... Trust me this is not worth it. If you're cool with flings you may have it if that's what you want but don't try to make it a long term because it's not sustainable

[Asker]

I get what you mean but I also don’t get where you’re going with this?

I can’t date him or do anything bc he’s a professor..

[888theGreat]

sound like Jennifer Bloom , any guy that says hello , she thinks has a crush on her.

[Asker]

I most certainly not like that but thank you

[spartan55]

Yeah, you and many others.

[Asker]

You think he’s a player?

[spartan55]

I think you are projecting your feelings on to the situation. Just don't do it, you will seriously regret it. He could be married anyway.

[Asker]

No he allows students to follow him on Instagram and no I am not projecting my feelings on to him bc I never said that I liked him/ attracted to him. I just noticed his actions.

[Asker]

But I am curious to know why you said me and many others?

[spartan55]

You apparently think I was born yesterday.
Also, wtf does him allowing students to follow him on stupid Instagram have to do with anything?

[Asker]

Because he’s not married

Could you please answer my question. How do you know if he flirts with others?

[spartan55]

How do you know he's not married?

[Asker]

Because he told students

He’s a artist so no woman is at any of his art shows

[Asker]

I think you’re just trying to be negative or play games instead of giving me advice or answering my question. I always admire your answers

[spartan55]

Playing games? How so? That's funny coming from you. You expect to be taken seriously when you post things like this? You wouldn't be posting this and doing follow up if you weren't interested in the Good Professor. I gave you advice, but you don't want to hear it.
If he is, in fact flirting with you (which is up for debate) he is flirting with other girls. I really doubt that's going on in this case though.

[Asker]

I may be a bit but I just didn’t know. A couple classmates who happen to also be my friends say that he has flirty energy.. but I feel more attraction than flirtation

[Asker]

You didn’t give me any advice

[spartan55]

"just don't do it"
There ya go, repeated it for you.

[Asker]

I was never going to do anything

[Asker]

I’ve projected nothing. I’m telling you exactly what I’m experiencing

[spartan55]

Then what is the point of this post? If you aren't going to do anything then what is the point. Is it an ego thing? I don't get it.

[Asker]

I do like him. I graduate this semester and I wanted to give it a shot.. but if you think he’s flirting with others and he wasn’t really showing attraction then I won’t do anything… that’s why I’m asking

[spartan55]

Lol, have you forgotten where you are when all this is happening? He could not only lose his job, but possibly his career. You just forget about all that?

[spartan55]

"I never said I liked him/attracted to him. I just noticed his actions."

"I like him"

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[Asker]

I graduate this semester so I won’t be a student anymore

I was going to wait a year if he’s single

[spartan55]

Wait a year? Lol...😂 😂 good luck with that.
You missed the point of my last comment. He can't show attraction at the present time... get it?

[spartan55]

"I was never going to do anything"

Until a year after you graduate anyway.

Oh my 😂, do you understand how you sound right now?