Why can't I seem to attract anyone and yet everyone thinks I'm great for some reason ?

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Why can't I seem to attract anyone and yet everyone thinks I'm great for some reason  !?

Why can't I seem to attract anyone and yet everyone thinks I'm great for some reason ?
So that's what I look like :

I'm 19 in college getting an AA in natural sciences wanting to major in chemistry. I want to become a chemical engineer, researcher or analytical chemist ( I haven't quite decided just yet). I work at a bookstore for a living mainly working cafe and sometimes doing register. I'm honest if nothing else, to the point where I could easily offend someone. My interests include anime, manga, Japan, Art, Chemistry, MBTI psychology, Quantum Physics, learning about history, learning about evil dictators, and random cute things like Pusheen the cat. My hobbies include manga collecting, cooking, reading, drawling, singing or learning random facts. For those who are aware of the 16 personality types I'm an Turbulent-INTJ Female

I look as white as a cracker, obviously I don't get outside much, I'm also fat. My ethnicity is English, Irish and Hungarian although I was born an American in Schenectady NY. I'm very unaware of my emotional and physical state of being and am extremely oblivious. I constantly forget to eat but when I don;t forget I'll eat anything. The last thing I am is street smart. I'm not looking for romance desperately but I do wonder why no one ever seems to be slightly attracted to me. For whatever reason it bothers me, probably human nature. My co-workers, friends, family and professors seem to think nicely of me so it perplexes me to think that no ones ever been interested. I'm no Marie Antoinette or Jenifer Lopez but I'm not exactly a wicked witch of the west either.

Please explain to me what is it about me that deters people away from getting to know me. I may not be everyone's cup of tea however I believe that asking this may increase my world view on myself since I will get to see other people perspective on how I am. I can try to guess at how people see me all day however there will always be a certain level of unpredictability since I can not witness my self for what others think of me. Thank you for helping me.
Why can't I seem to attract anyone and yet everyone thinks I'm great for some reason ?
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