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Girls, Why do I seem to be unable to attract anyone whilst I should be attractive on paper?

Anonymous

I'm 188cm, thin yet with some muscle, and i've been told my face was good looking by girls my age and above. I've got girlfriends before and got offered one night stands in the past (i refused).

I'm studying to obtain a master's degree, can hold conversations since i'm social and know a fair bit of trivia.

I can speak fluently three languages. I go out, brew my own alcohol, cook, write my own novels and worldbuild, do roleplays, go to the gym, meet people, go to community service.

I love to debate with my friends and i'm open about the fact thay i'm Christian and strictly searching for a serious long term relationship.

I really fail to understand the logic behind my situation. It's not just that i'm getting low interest, it's that girls do not even engage in eye contact or even consider me as a potential partner. And i really am not awkward around woman.

Did i went below woman expectation? Is my physical appearance in fact revulsing? Do woman each have an extremely intricate list of requirements for a boyfriend that i just can't fulfill?

I'm lost.

Girls, Why do I seem to be unable to attract anyone whilst I should be attractive on paper?
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