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I don't mean to sound conceited here, but I did well in school and got all the grades needed for university.

I took time out to work for three years in education... since that's the route I want to go down anyway.

However, a requirement for re-entering university was that I attend an interview. So I did attend one on Friday.

I felt that the female interviewer disliked me, she was screwing her face up a lot while I did my presentation. And apart from that, she never seemed to notice me either. She was a tutor from the university.

Anyway, the second part of the interview was an individual interview where I was asked 8 questions. The whole time, the woman was taking loads of notes and so was the man that was interviewing me. She had asked how I was feeling and I said I felt 'fine' because that was exactly how I felt. She later followed that up with a snide comment saying 'no matter how well prepared you are, it's never as easy as you think' which annoyed me because I never once thought it was easy and stressed over the whole thing.

Despite that, I answered my interview questions absolutely perfectly. There was no hesitation, I had researched everything well and I also have three years of experience. I was quietly confident, very polite and answered all of the questions very succinctly. I actually had a really good feeling overall about the interview.

However, today I was absolutely shocked to receive an email stating that despite the fact I had the entry qualifications I 'didn't seem to have enough knowledge/understanding regarding the course I had applied for'

again? I know I may sound conceited - I'm not trying to be. I can admit when I've failed or when I've did wrong. But I absolutely smashed my interview and displayed excellent knowledge from start to finish.

despite this, I still got a big fat rejection. I have written to the university looking for feedback. What do you guys think?

My parents are forcing me to marry this guy- he's an engineer and also he's rich. They think I'll be happy in my life if I get to marry this guy but I dun like him cz he's girly, weak when it comes to sex ( sexually harasses me even when I tell him I dun like being touched by him like wtf? A real man should understand a women's nature). I feel disgusted when he touch me. He's a psycho bz he threatens me like he'll die if I ever leave him and then once he called me a slut and then told me to get lost but then the next day he messaged me like nothing ever happened.
And then there's this guy, he asked me out yesterday, He's damn cute and sweet p. s he's a doctor. He respects me and really loves me but he's from a mixed race and so his cast is being a problem here. I dun get this, what the hell is wrong with my family, I told my cousin about this and he told me to stay away from him cz he's from a different cast? Seriously? . I really like him, his dimple and his smile... damn I really love him but I'm scared. I've planned on expressing my love today and also about my problem with that engineer... should I go for him? This feels so weird, I didn't sleep yesterday bz of this guy, I've been thinking about him all the time... I don't know what it is called.. but I think I seriously fell for him, I dun want to miss him... money is worth shit if there's no love or understanding between a couple but my mom had a hard time (money problem, she suffered a lot) so she thinks money is important... that's why... but my parents are really good and I love em.. but I'M scared when it comes to my future, I dun wanna miss a sweet heart like him, I dun mind sacrificing anything for him... I've sacrificed my happiness for my family but I can't anymore cz I want to live happily like others... I dun wanna marry a sex freak like that engineer and live a hell life regretting I've lost something precious. Help me, what should I do?