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I bumped into a male colleague on a night out. We’ve known each other for a couple of years and have a flirty relationship.

When I say drunk, I don’t mean stumbling everywhere and puking their guts up, he seemed pretty coherent and just more sociable if anything.

I, however, was a little more drunk. I admitted to him that I liked him as more than a friend. I asked him if he felt the same way. He kept saying “you’re a lovely person” and I eventually said “just answer the question”. He said yes and we kissed a bit. When he said “yes” he sounded kind of annoyed, like he was very reluctant to admit it.

things were a little awkward at work, but now we are very flirty again. I’ve noticed that when he stares at me, his eyes will look at both of my eyes and down to my mouth. He also looks at me first when he enters a room.

Do you think he meant it? As I said, he didn’t seem overly drunk. Although he claims he “can’t remember” what happened.

He tried to stare me down from afar in class while I looked away. When I stood up and put my jacket on he looked over at his friend nervously and didn’t say a word. He looked like he wanted to approach me but didn’t do it. Instead he would spent the next months to catch me looking at him since someone told him I liked him. Does he just want my attention? Why are men so desperate for attention from women they are not that into?