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My favorite dates are going on long walks with smart and pretty women at the local parks. Just walking and talking together enjoying each other's company.

I enjoy good quality time with women and physical touch. Latter on in a relationship I enjoy holding hands, giving massages, and snuggling together.

I think it's pretty obvious that it is normal for the person who decided to end things to feel relief for an amount of time before the sadness and missing relationship kicks in. Especially in a situation where you felt overwhelmed and smothered, like the relationship was suffocating you. So once you finally end it, which was something you had been debating for a while, it feels like a ton of weight has been lifted off your shoulders. I don't really think you know how you truly feel about it all, the breakup/the person you broke up with, until that relief eventually subsides or significantly lessens. The relief won't begin to fade until you actually cut contact with that person (it could even if still in contact but at a much slower rate). If you stay in contact with them, you don't have the chance to miss them and the good times/qualities as they're still in your life providing that emotional support, basically helping you get through the breakup in a way.

My ex is trying to tell me that post-breakup relief isn't normal and if you have it at all, it means you ultimately made the right decision regardless. She says that normally after a breakup you should be messed up/sad if made wrong decision, and want them back. But since she didn't experience that (it's been 2.5 months lol and we haven't gone more than 3 or 4 days without talking) she thinks she did the right thing and that's why she is relieved. She basically doesn't believe the relief will ever wear off. That honestly baffles me, not because I want the relationship back but just because it just seems like common sense lol. Especially if you date someone for two years haha, you're going to eventually feel sad and miss them. Also, her saying she hasn't felt sad is bs. Literally since the day we broke up she would find reasons to contact me about every other day when I wanted space. Now we talk more often but she still is the one who seems to miss me more than I miss her.

Anyways, I want to hear other opinions.

I have come to accept my balding. It's in my family, I can delay it but never really prevent it, my hair doesn't like my own hormone. Besides I've had it sort off rough with severe stress, depression and anxiety due to things in my life from the age of 14-21. Also had impact on my diet and daily habits, so at 23 it was gone.

It won't come back unless I spend insane amounts of money, personal time and energy, refrain from a lot of good and fun stuff, which is f*** that. I'm at a point where I'm considering permanent hair removal with laser, just to be free of the shaving, seems like the most reasonable. Microscalp pigmentation doesn't seem worth it.

In the past some girls would rate me 6+/10 with hair. However as bald at the age of 25, it's obviously not like that anymore. Girls started wondering and questioning, why this and that superficial blabla. (Seriously some so dull about it, they don't even want to comprehend science). Worst is the god damn double morale girls, you know the same ones whining about guys only wanting great bodys.
- It's all fair however, I respect honesty if you just prefer a guy with hair, yada lets move on.

I won't be able to intrigue and marry any girl, that's fine. From the signals I've been picking up, asking a few gals, I'd say 5/10 at most, depending on the type of gal. Sometimes I wear a cap, but mostly I feel like just shaving it off and rocking the look. Working on other qualities such as charisma and humor. Grass doesn't grow on a busy street. I'm afraid of lice. I'm selling it for a lucrative price etc. Other superficial plusses such as thick beard stubble and a great body, which is improving everyday. Intelligence and dominance I've noticed some girls see in me, that's great.

You can be harsh even humorous, I'll survive. But please be honest how do I look and
would you date a bald guy, why, why not?
The big picture question for women in general. Why is it some rate men from something to nothing just because of hair genes?