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Rachel is 16 and lives with her mother Tasheka who always tells Rachel she's ugly, hideous worthless and stupid. Tasheka is a single mother, she's often at work and rarely pays attention to Rachel. One night they get into a argument. Tasheka throws a glass bottle at Rachel and kicks her out the apartment and tells her to go kill herself. Rachel goes over Arthur's house. Arthur is a 27 year old man who's her teacher. ( they knew each other for 1 year) Arthur is happy to see her and they hug. When she walks in, Arthur makes dinner, then they cuddle on the sofa and watch tv. Arthur kisses her forehead, then she cuddles against his neck and he gets hard and moans a little. Arthur stands up and says sorry. Rachel giggles and says that's okay. Eventually they go upstairs and fall asleep in his bed. The next morning Arthur makes breakfast. Rachel starts crying because she misses her foster parents. Arthur hugs her and comforts her. After eating, watering Arthur's flowers and playing a few board games she leaves and goes back home. Arthur goes back to grading papers.

do you think Arthur was wrong?

Arthur is 27 he used to be a high school English teacher but then he started to date a 16 year old, fell asleep in the same bed as her and when the girl turned 17 he got her pregnant. The school found out and he was kicked out of school. Now before Arthur was a English teacher he used to be a kindergarten teacher. Arthur loves kids and applied for a job at a nearby kindergarten. Would you hire Arthur? Do you think Arthur should be teaching children since he loves kids and has a degree in it? After what he did to that teenage girl that he now lives with? ( she's 19 now) would you allow Arthur to teach your children?

If I had to select a score on a 1-10 scale, I would probably say more than 5. While there are some men that will still be jerks, controlling and cheaters no matter how sweet his girlfriend or wife is (in that case, he doesn't deserve anyone), I don't think that's always the case.

There are certain things that can annoy/bore the heck out of a guy IMO:

- Nagging and arguing (even more irritating if it comes with insults)
Really? Do you have to repeat something more than twice to make your point? What exactly is the woman gaining by doing that? More than likely the guy probably wants to walk out the door to get some fresh air (by himself) where he should be spending his spare time with the woman he loves.
- The drama queen
Literally, my mother threw a big tantrum (crying too) because her cell phone had no access for a couple day. Meanwhile my father had this ''not this again'' expression of annoyance in his face. I don't even act like that on my period.

- Neglecting a man's need constantly
While I get that there will be times we're tired from work as well, that doesn't mean there is no time at all for him. At the very least, asking how his day was at work, giving him a cup of tea or hugging him before going to bed is a difference than not even trying at all. Then off course, being on the computer all day long or on your cell talking to your friends nonstoppable while the guy is right there waiting.

At the end of the day, both are responsible for putting their time and effort (off course if the guy is all moody for no reason after I simply asked him how his day was and if he wanted a cup of tea, then that's him being a jerk) to work out their relationship or marriage. I'm just pointing out certain things some women do that might lead to the relationship or marriage following apart.