Search Results: how to get a second date

I'm very lost and at my wits end?

I'm really struggling and it's getting worse by the day. It's been over a year and half since my ex cheated and dumped me for someone else. In that time she has moved in with the guy. I have been trying to date after I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

If you were this guy would you at least have the courtesy to get in touch with this woman or not?

I have a male cousin whose best friend died last year at the age of 47 of a heart attack, they were friends for like "ALWAYS" they were friends for over like 29 years. They share many things together, went to trips...

kitty71

Guru Age: 55

Girl's Behavior

Has anyone ever dated an avoidant person?

I dated a woman for almost 2 years that I think was an avoidant person. What do think? From the very beginning she would show some interest in getting to know me but then back off. After our first date I texted her...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

When a guy still talks about you?

I dated one of my best friends relatives (her cousin michael) last summer into the winter time When we stopped seeing each other, I was about to start a new phase in my career that I had to go to months long training...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Did I blow my chance at a second date?

I recently went on a date with a girl that I had met a party. she and I had talked on and off throughout the night, and the following day we both followed each other on IG and messaged a few times. One day she had...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Is it strange that he is so touchy feely with me on a date?

So I’ve been on two dates with this guy and I’ve just basically got out of a messy situation with another guy and I was looking to distract myself from my own emotions. On the first date with the guy he knew I was in a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Is this strange or am I overthinking it all?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

She seemed interested, but now she's not answering. What gives?

Went out on a date with her on Thursday. Thought things went well. Nice conversations, teasing, banter, etc... She even texted me 30 mins after I got back home saying how she had a really great evening. So...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Guys, Why does a guy initiate text everyday but doesn't hold the conversation?

I met this guy on a dating app and we've been talking for several months. He was very active at first, he keeps asking questions and texts me twice if I hadn't get back to him in two days. I wasn't really interested in...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Not sure if I want to take her on a second date?

Went out with her yesterday evening for a few drinks. I felt things went well, we laughed a lot, talked about random things, teased eachother... I just don't know if I felt the "spark". 30 mins after I got home she...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

How do people live with collecting $30,000 from unemployment while others get nothing?

I can only speak for VA, but I qualified for unemployment. Should have been paid out over $30,000 by now but I haven't received a single cent. Every time I get close to the end of their hoops they just add new ones....

Lost_in_the_Woods

Xper 7 Age: 29

Family & Friends

Second “date”/meeting hints?

I hung out with a guy friend of mine I grew up with and we had an amazing time - we did a fun activity, had lunch, two coffees (we are both big coffee people), sight seeing, and dessert. He planned everything except the...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Religion & Spirituality

What do you believe these two dreams mean?

In my first dream I met a good looking and white skinned Indian guy in college in his twenties that I wanted to date and he did arranged marriages but since I was rich, I knew his family would allow him to marry me but...

jennifer_bloom

Influencer Age: 41

Dating

Should I tell him I like him or not? What should I do?

I’m probably overthinking this. There’s this guy at my job, we’ve been on 3 dates so far. The first date was dinner, which he paid, the second movies, the third dinner and dessert, both dutch, I’m fine with that. All...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

A guy leaving a date early because he had no money to continue?

Been talking this guy just under a week. Went bowling yesterday and was supposed to go for a few more drinks afterwards. But he said he to get up early for work the next day. Date ended at 7. We had a lot of banter and...

april1985m

Xper 4 Age: 31

Guy's Behavior

When a guy doesn’t want to label anything and just have fun, is he not interested in you romantically?

This guy and I recently started “dating” (I put dating in quotation makes bc I don't know what we are) about 3 weeks ago. We’ve been texting everyday for 3 weeks, went on a date, and hung out together with friends. We...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Aftermath of my (18M) first date with my college crush (19F): What should I do?

Keep in mind that at this point we’re relatively good friends. We’ve had conversations about pretty personal topics like family, previous guys she’s dated, and her friends, so it’s been fun. So basically we had a...

HumbleMike

Xper 3 Age: 22

Dating

Does he want to date me? Or is this just a platonic relationship? Can I have your honest take on this? Should I take the initiative for a 3rd date?

There’s this guy at work who I think likes me. He does friendly-flirty banter with me, tries to touch me, non-sexually, tries to be around me at work, has complimented me, walked me to my car, stares at me. He asked me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Did I mess everything up?

So I like this guy and we went on a first date. We kissed that same day but that was it. The second time he asked me to come to his house. I stupidly went over. I went because he was studying for a really big exam and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

I can't tell if he's playing games or is genuinely clueless?

Ok so, I'm interested in that guy, but we've only seen each other three times, nothing happened, all dates were get to know each other dates, the thing is he worked abroad, so after the second date I couldn't see him for...

Anonymous

(30-35)