I'm very lost and at my wits end?

[Anonymous]

I'm really struggling and it's getting worse by the day. It's been over a year and half since my ex cheated and dumped me for someone else. In that time she has moved in with the guy. I have been trying to date after I took some time but I haven't had a second date in this whole time. The majority of these women I had no interest in and they still rejected me. I've moved and started a new job. I've gotten to the point where I question life every day. I'm very lost and need help?

[Crissy_J]

I hear you. With time I think you will start to see things clearly. A year and a half seems like a long time, but people take different approaches to getting over breakups. You have made hard decisions like moving and starting a new job, and that’s just the beginning of your new life. It may not seem like it now, but life will get better. You need to do yourself a favor and stop idealizing this ex. Focus on yourself and what’s best for you. Realize she wasn’t what you needed in life. If she was, she would be with you right now. It may sound cliche, but maybe keep a journal and write out your feelings and come back to them every so often. You may find some clarity if it’s put down on paper. Just let it flow on paper and you may gain some insight into situations you didn’t realize before. Good luck.

[Jhon24]

All of this bcz you can't find a girlfriend? Is having a girlfriend that necessary? It's not worth it

[Asker]

a lot of it is because I can't find a girlfriend but also the majority of it is because I'm nolonger with my ex.

[Jhon24]

Well eventually you'll find someone, in the meantime, you can hang out with friends, it's much better.. And your ex is a whore who doesn't deserve you, forget about her.

[Slartybartfast]

Just know that what you're going through is normal for guys.

[Canceled]

Lift and never commit