I'm lost? wwhat should I do?

[Akagirl]

So I have been seeing this guy casually. It will be 2 months now haha choose counting lol. But like 2 weeks ago he said he wanted to talk more to me and want to see more of me. I was shocked. Cause I just thought he didn't like me that much you know. I realise I do like him too. I asked hime what he meant. He. said he is normally busy but he enjoy spending time with me. I said yes I would like to get to know him. But im always scared caused guy likes to ghost me I have never seen a guy for that long lol. I always get ghosted around 2 or 3 times meeting. But with this guy. we have seen each other quite a few time. We. dont really text that much but he will always message or ask me when im free to come other. This weekend we talked a bit more and flirted a bit it was fun. But I saw on tinder he changed something on his bio the about me section he changed it to looking to for and adventure buddy. So does it means he is actively looking for other woman. And what about me. WHAT SHOULD I DO. Should i play it cool. Or when we meet ask him want he wants with me. But I do like the dynamic of seeing him from time to time. Yes I like the sexxxx cause it a reliabe sex buddy i got for the first time in my life. I dont sleep around im quite boring. But im scared im craving more than that but im afraid I get rejected or maybe I was wrong I dont really like him like that. What. should i do. What do you think its his deal and should I keep my option open too but im lazy to date around its frustrating and im tired to start over with small talk.

[ohsheeT]

We already know the answers. To all of our question but when we hear them we get in ourbown way or we over thing iylt.

Ok so when we love ourselves ans we are real. so as im reading your question I see that you also answer the top part to. So dies he know that you know he's on tender. If so im going to say that's manipulation because he knew that you'd go there and read his page again. And I said I'm telling you with his mouth. He wants to tell you on his page.
But at the same time.
He would still keep that page up if you started dating him.

But i do have to tell you there is something about you and it even has me curious? And if he feels what im feeling this might be thr reason for change of heart but I still think that he's manipulating you in a couple different ways.

[InknKink]

From my perspective, if you're already sleeping with a guy, that's all you can ever hope to get out of him. Men seek relationships for sexual opportunities, and if he already has those opportunities, then there isn't much reason to invest more into the relationship.

But who knows.

Ask him what he wants and then feel it out for yourself. You might get hurt, but you might not. Relationships are always a risk.

[Abbycado]

Is it any different than you still being on tinder?

[Avicenna]

You need to have a frank conversation with him about your expectations and his

[Iron_Man]

Make sure he’s a good guy organize the rules and don’t give it up because he might leave. You don’t know this guy

[In_Trance]

You're still on Tinder...