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Search Results: how to get my confidence up
Is it bad that I get mad at my sister for these comments?
I grew up being the middle sister of two. My sisters got the looks and unfortunately it skipped over me. I would always get compliments from my friends on how my sisters were beautiful and I totally agree but it SUCKS. My...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why am I always the one lately where everyone is always saying to me, "Why would you take this out and why would I want that?
Why is everyone always ordering me around, from a wrestler on social media, to my mom and some Practitioner, why am I always getting told something, how come I can't be "authoritative," with them and tell them those same...
BubbaSparkx
Xper 5 Age: 44 Charm School: Lesson One SHE-VALRY
Charm School: Lesson One SHE-VALRY SHE-VALRY. Chivalry might not be all the way dead, but it sure is making room for SHE-VALRY. Girls today have a problem interacting or (flirting) with boys. These girls are so...
Wowgirl30q
Editor Age: 37 Is life easier for women, are they genetically more attractive, can they be useless and unemployed and will someone take care of them?
I think they have it easier to find someone who is going to take care of them, maybe not emotionally because men are very ducks but in financial support. And in the appearence I think that a girl has it easier, most girls...
Wolkmi
Xper 5 Age: 29 Welcome To Charm School
Welcome to Charm School Don't Be Shy Many guys and girls from GAG say they are shy around the opposite sex. The vast majority of shy people I've met wish they could be more outgoing and confident about themselves. I...
Wowgirl30q
Editor Age: 37 Any self-confidence/self-help advice?
I was stalked/raped 2yr ago by a friend/coworker. I was 18 & he was 31. I told one girl about it & she told everyone. Everyone stuck up for him & he made my job hell after being promoted to a manager. I got a new job & he...
Anonymous
(25-29) How do I start living life/having confidence again?
I was stalked and raped two years ago by a friend/coworker of mine right before my shift. I was at 18 at the time and he was 31. I told one girl about it and she told everyone. Everybody stuck up for him, and he made my...
kmarie3
Xper 3 Age: 28 Men! You cannot trust (almost all) women!
You probably want to skip this one but I urge you if you are in a hurry at least consider reading the Final words of wisdom section before jumping the gun. Very important disclaimer: I know what you are thinking....
Anonymous
(30-35) Does it look weird that I hide my scars? Am I right to hide them or my ex wanting me to show them off?
I'm a gardener. I get the occasional cut. But some have scarred. Recently I showed pictures of my Hogweed burns over my body. People kept asking me about them, friends, family, strangers and such. I've grown very self...
StormCOGy
Xper 4 Age: 31 Friend break ups are the worst
In the past year, I have ended two relationships with two very good friends. One was a toxic relationship. The other was made worse by my friends alcohol abuse and a huge argument that we got into because of his lack of...
1truekhaleesi
Editor Age: 29 Why I changed my hair length on men beliefs and why I doubt I will never change them again
I will share why I feel that men should walk with confidence and support short hair and not let their hair grow. Of course this doesn't apply in all situations and I am not condemning your choices but expressing why my...
Exorcist_Rampage
Yoda Age: 32 What do you do to cheer yourself up?
What are effective ways for you to cheer yourself up when you really need it? When I feel bad about myself I listen to certain song to boost my confidence, I even have a playlist dedicated to 'powersongs' to get me...
Saarr
Yoda Age: 25 He left me for another girl!! Need help?
So I was dating this guy for 6 months, we just instantly connected, we had the same sense of humour, a lot in common, actually had met each other years ago but never spoke or get to know each other even though now he...
Anonymous
(30-35) I used to be in a long distance relationship I loved him so much and still do I feel that he is my soulmate but a day?
I used to be in a long distance relationship I loved him so much and still do I feel that he is my soulmate but a day while we talking iam feeling insecure because he didn't reply fast as he do also he didn't text me as...
Anonymous
(25-29) Reasons she won't commit to you and what you can do to make her
1.) You're boring No woman wants a man who doesn't have anything going on with his life. Are you adventurous? Do you hit the gym or play some hoops? If you're just sitting your ass at home playing your stupid video games...
Anonymous
(25-29) Infrequent texts? Reassurance?
So I meet this guy on Tinder, he’s not the usual Tinder guy who wants to hook up, he’s kinda like the nerdy type and has a physical disability, which I don’t mind at all. A few weeks ago, the first few days he would...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why she rejected me even though Im a perfect match to her and she accepted anathor one after some days?
I proposed her 1 year back , at the time she said because of she come from a conservative family, she can't love me.. i chased her for some months, but when i saw nothing is getting working, i stopped chasing her and I...
Oneworld787
Xper 3 Age: 27 Hard to make friends-other girls don't like me & guys only want to sleep with me?
So I've noticed that I'm really bad at making friends. I'm not stuck up or anything. After people get to know me or within about an hour of meeting, people label me as shy. Yet some of the same will call me stuck up and...
Anonymous
(25-29) How do I overcome beating myself up?
I often regard myself as stupid and have a hard time having any confidence in social situations. How can I know if I’m seeing an objective reality of myself or if I’m just letting my insecurities get the best of me?
Sillywilly27
Xper 3 Age: 31 A thought about my current relationship
I promise this won't be long. As many of you who have been following my situation and my outbursts for some time now, at end of July I broke up with the girl I was supposed to propose to. It was just the necessary...
