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29F and I’ve always questioned how almost every pretty woman I’ve come across is always in a relationship with an equally attractive guy. When I was chubby younger, I thought losing weight would solve everything and it hasn’t. I feel like regardless of what anyone else says, I’ll always wholeheartedly believe attractive women have no issue finding a partner & they have life easier. I’ve been told I’m attractive by a variety of people for most of my life, even when I was chubby. I’m not thin, 5’7 women’s US 10 so midsize but I have that thicker thigh/flatter stomach build. The only time I get attention from guys I find attractive are on dating apps and that’s not telling in my opinion. I’ve been told this guy looked at me/this guy found me attractive from other people but the guy never makes it known to me. And there’s been very very few times where I would see an attractive guy making eye contact with me or at least caught my gaze but I just look away b/c I don’t see the point. I’m anxious/reserved but a lot of people with anxiety are in fulfilling relationships🤷🏻‍♀️

I met a guy on a forum a couple of years ago and we barely ever talked. We’ve probably only texted 12 times. Randomly he texted me insinuating I want him to meet him. He phrased his sentence as if I was in love with him and needed him to come to where I am and like get a house in my city. Then, not too long after that, he texted me saying he wanted to fly over to my country and take me out. I know that if someone’s a weirdo I can block them. Especially if they are so far away. But I just need to know if that’s odd or suspicious or if they were just trying to be nice? I don’t want this question to make me seem dumb it’s just the fact they one day said something to me making it seem like they thought I needed to be dependent on them and have them move here and assumed I needed to be taken on a date by them that threw me off and I need to know if that’s eerie or if I’m crazy.