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For context I am 22 and recently graduated college.

During my senior year of highschool there was a girl who was two years younger than me. Its a long story and hard to explain but essentially we both had a crush on each other for like 2 years at this point but had never dated. At this point, knowing I was about to graduate, I was scared of dating her. At the same time, I was a little sad that I wasted the last couple years and never dated her while I could.

there's more to the story but I'll keep it brief: we were really, really into eachother (based on my own experience and what her friends have told me) but we never dated, and when we tried in the summer before I went to college we got into an emotion-fuled fight and really hurt eachother. I think we both just knew that with me in college and her still in highschool it was not going to work. And being young and dumb we said stupid things to each other.

During my freshman year I asked one of her friends if she was still mad at me and she said no, in fact, she wanted me to text her. We apologized to each other and I told her I wanted to at least be friends and she said she felt the same. But we drifted apart and I haven't really spoken to her since then.

I am probably overthinking this but I wonder if she's still into me. She is the most attractive girl I've ever met even after all this time. She always views my stories on instagram and snap, but we never talk. We both dated a few people over the years but nothing has lasted.

Do you think there's a chance she still might me interested in me? Or am I crazy and wishfulling thinking. I just hate that we never really had a chance to actually try at dating.

I want to know if I need to finally let go and move on if there could be a chance for us.

I have an East Asian friend (probably Japanese or Korean; I don't know tbh). He was rejected four times this month, so my boys and I are trying to help him out. Here's his stats based on the most objective analysis we have created:

• 6'3 tall
• quite the handsome devil
  • impeccable jawline
  • piercing eyes although they aren't blue
• well-built (athletic)
• smart
  • 1570 on the SAT; can you believe it?
• great personality
  • friendly
  • confident
  • has leadership

We REALLY want to help him. Why does he still get no girls at all?

One of the things that we came up with is that he's Asian and therefore looks unattractive (we live in a small town where he is the only nonwhite kid in school). However, we really don't want to end this off on such a hopeless note. After all, we've known each other in our friend group for 11 years. For reference, I am only 5'10 and semi-obese, but I still pull more girls than him. There is a girl, known to be the "ugly duckling".

Do we really just tell him that Asian guys are just inherently unattractive, or is there some other way we can sugarcoat it?

A competition made for you to filter out and find YOUR husband. What are the events and challenges are in the competition?

After watching the competition, you select the winner based upon your criteria. After a brief courting time up to 12 months, you are married or go into therapy to fix the relationship. Can only bail out if there was fraud. Avoids all the dating messes and ensures "commitment", you are married and that's your husband... no more complexity and dating confusion. Yes, you get to talk to each contestant along the way.

Contestants are chosen by your friends, family, expert judges, an AI match dating program and past contestants. All contestants are vetted for criminal records and meet basic criteria for career, finances, ethics, values, pet allergies, etc.. Basic stressors and compatibility.

What competitions and events would you want to see?

The cost for this service is $5000 to you and $1000 to each contestant. Contestants not chosen can compete up to 10 times to impress other mates, improving their chances of being chosen as a mate. Men can opt out if they are not interested in that woman. Men have control too.

This isn't much different from what people in India do... family selects options, you pick whom you want and figure it out. Not much different than nature, you just get more information and more commitment and cut the BS and wasting time.

Examples:

* Phone communication with women under stress

* Making dinner

* Critical thinking and decision making

* Moving heavy objects

* Hair grooming contest

* Hot dog eating...

* ETC...

Note the only winner... is the one you chose! Just because someone is stronger, doesn't mean he wins, or smarter.