Do you think I was being mean for saying skinny/slender people are overrated?

[Anonymous]

One of my girl pals says she dislikes being chubby and wants to be skinny, well slender. She asked me for an honest opinion and I told her why would she wanna be slender? I just think slender is very overrated. Look I don’t agree with body shaming but I feel like chubby people don’t get the recognition they deserve. Chubby guys and ladies deserve love too and you don’t need to be slender or fit to have a relationship. Chubby doesn’t always mean unhealthy in fact I find chubby men sexier than muscular or good looking men. Yes I said it. My friend is chubby but she is an attractive girl, thick, curvy and she gets more attention than I do. I’m slender and I absolutely HATE IT. Being thin isn’t all that great and mostly girl KILL to have a curvy, full figure. Also most girls and women want that sexy BOOTY. Why wouldn’t want be bootylicious? Hey it’s my opinion and I’m entitled to it.
I hate my slender body, flat belly, and my slender legs. My friend thought I was crazy but I want fit, thick legs nad I wants my thighs to touch. Not every girl wants slender legs.

[AaronKrieger]

No, since you are not insulting something by calling it overrated, but I would not go that indepth to someone who is skinny, lmao.

I am skinny as shit and wasn't offended by this not even a little, but I could see how someone could if you said ALL of that in-person. However, just saying "being skinny is overrated" isn't a negative thing.

[Serenade_10]

She asked for your opinion and you gave it. Personally, I agree with you. You didn't say anything wrong. That's true, I believe every body should be respected. It doesn't matter if you like it or not, you NEED to respect all. So according to me, u need not worry about wt u said.

[Asker]

Thank you. It was just an opinion and I feel like she needs to love herself and besides a lot of women would love to have curves and be full figured. She thought I was insane for hating my slender legs and flat belly. I told her having a flat belly and slender legs doesn’t always mean healthy. I hate them. A little chubby isn’t always unhealthy and frankly I wish I was a little chubby like her. She gets more attention from men then I do. Men don’t want a skinny woman and most women don’t wanna be skinny.

[Asker]

But everyone is being no matter what size and I told her she doesn’t wanna be slender like me.

[Anonymous]

Not mean, very accurate.

[Asker]

Thank you. I was just saying my honest opinion. Most people find chubby people more cuter than skinny or slender people. Nobody wants to be slender. I hate being slender and some of the chubbier girls though I was insane that I hate my slender legs and flat belly.

[Christoff92]

No. That's your opinion

[Anonymous]

Maybe a bit.