Hey everyone, so my boyfriend and i have been together for 8 years and when we have sex my boyfriend doesn’t get hard with me anymore. let me first say that we barely have sex much, two, i don’t seduce him, i don’t initiate. i’m not blaming him, it’s 100% my fault. i just don’t feel sexy anymore when i’m with him. i look at myself in the mirror and i see a stranger. i know i’m a beautiful girl, but now i look and all i see is fat and i’m very insecure. i used to be insecure before getting into a relationship with my now boyfriend but it’s gotten so much worse. let’s say he has followed a bunch of bikini and ass profiles on instagram, he likes a bunch of their pictures and he has DMed a couple of them while being in a relationship with me. he tries his hardest to compliment me, but i can’t receive it with love bc all i can think about is him doing those nasty things to me. i forgot to mention when he’s drunk he has said i’m stupid, not pretty, i don’t get him hard, that i should get a reality check bc other girls are so much prettier than me. i ask him when he’s sober and he doesn’t feel that way and that he’s sorry for ever saying those things to me. that’s all i can think about so it’s really hard for me to even think i’m pretty. i’m not skinny by any means so that plays a huge part of my insecurities and it makes me really sad and i really hate myself for it too. i use to be so nice with everyone, not im just a bitch and it makes me so sad.
My boyfriend doesn’t get hard with me anymore?
