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She always feels like she's being judged. She feels fat when she's not at all, but at the same time, she feels like she has a pretty face, good job, and a good singing voice although she has stage fright. She also can't admit when she's wrong and ragingly gaslights to "win" the argument and then dismisses anything anyone else has to say unless... someone like me who has experience with her can listen to her side and calmly express my viewpoints. This doesn't always work either, and I really don't want to deal with it sometimes.

By the way, I love my sister, and she is far from the worst person in the world. I do think she usually is a good person, but she has these moments that just annoy me because they just don't make any sense. I'm wondering how unique this is or if it is not at all. Personally I don't think her behavior is rare, but please feel free to chime in.

Please share if you have any solutions.

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To me (rather indirectly), my brother (who is not even a teenager yet) has already showed signs that he is "in the closet." He denied being gay, but his hidden emotions and outright behaviors (according to both himself and his friends) have clearly shown otherwise. They're all trying so hard to hide it from his dad.

My brother may not be gay, but he sure isn't straight like I am. My mom said one year ago, she expects both of us to have babies with our wives. My stepdad is prejudiced (usually doesn't like his kid hearing about LGBTQ+, Black History, or issues related to such), but thank God he is not outright homophobic or racist (i. e., doesn't teach him stuff like "[these people] will burn in Hell" or "[those people] are subhuman/animals"). That said, my brother does use slurs sometimes; though I don't think he gets them exactly from his dad (my stepdad used to call his friends the n-word though; but he stopped doing that for some reason... like a long time ago).

I'm in deep fear that my younger brother will become a "spiritual successor" to Christian Walker.

It's a really weird conclusion, but politics and behaviors do often correlate. I wrote to my dad on Facebook everything that I wrote in my "first" post on here and all he did was reply to me with a black man shooting his shot basketball GIF and saying have a great day and that he loves me... Empathetic gaslighting much?

Sometimes my dad is more of a deadbeat than my stepdad. But he doesn't act as blunt most of the time. He was very blunt when I was a kid and sometimes strict, but I don't think he was on the same level as my stepdad.

Why doesn't my bio-dad take me seriously when I tell him the behaviors of my mom and stepdad?