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The reason they are chasing is because they are desperate for that validation right?

I’ll speak from my own personal experience here. Back when I was desperate for women, I had a very low self esteem. So much so to the point where I couldn’t even approach them, because I felt I was beneath them. And part of the contributor was the fact that I hadn’t yet convinced myself of my own self worth, which meant that I was then dependent on the word of somebody else.

In the time since I’ve re-examined myself and my behaviors which has fundamentally transformed me as a person. Beforehand I was too focused on how society didn’t match my standards, instead of learning to work with what we had in common. I also had no understanding of how my social behaviors isolated me from other people. I’ve since learned to focus my attention on the one person I can change: Myself 😄

As a result of the above I’ve become a much happier person, and I am tempted to believe that I am a much higher value man than I was before, considering how I’ve been getting results. 👍