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My dad has never met my boyfriend and so, because im his only daughter and had bad relationships before, he obviously didn't like this guy but was open to meeting him as he wanted to know him.

Before dad wanted to meet him, my boyfriend asked me what my dad thought of him-he wanted the honest truth. I told him what my dad thought however, I let him know my dad wanted to meet him. My boyfriend was upset because dad didn't like him and then told me a story about how his grandfather fought against family to marry his grandmum... I assumed maybe he wants me to fight for him. So I thought I'm going to try harder and fight for what I want. I talked to dad and dad said he didn't want to interfere with my life, wants me to be happy and wants to meet him. I went back to my boyfriend, but now he told me he's lost interest in me because of what dad thought of him before they even met!!! and now he's just giving me the silent treatment, cold shoulder and ignoring me. What should I do? I feel like I've wasted time :(

We weren't in a relationship. It was only sex. So when I got pregnant I didn't tell him and decided I would be a single mother. Then when I told one of my friends who the father was she apparently knew him and told him I was and that he was the dad. So then he texted me and asked if it was true which i just fessed up and then asked me why I didn't tell him and then I responded that I don't owe him any explanation and what happens with my own body. After I told him this I blocked him and can longer receive messages from him so I don't know what he said after that.

For all the guys who think I should've told him keep in mind I don't want child support or any help from him. So either way its none of his business in my view.

Either way I'm moving out state and moving on with life, but I wondering what other guys would do in this situation.

Ok so im in a tough situation im in a new relationship with this guy and things are getting a bit serious we been dating a liitle over 9 months and we made it official between us 2 months ago and now i let him move in with me. He has 2 kids from his previous relationship a boy & a girl they come over on the weekends the boy is 5 & the girl is 3 i babysit them when i get off of work for four hours until there dad get off work... i have an ok friendship with their mom i figure she doesn't like me because i can just sense it... but she's respectful and so am i but anyways she told me that they are a handful so if they get out of line to spank them... i laughed it off because at the time she told me that i didn't think they where that bad but nooooow lol they are very much so a handful and i do get the urge to wanna spank them escpecially the 5 year old he calls me racist names like a n****r, blacky pants, & calls me stupid ass, fat ass, im not even fat i guess he's just not use to seeing women with big hips and big butt lol but he ruins my apartment NEVER listens while the 3 year old mocks him but she actually listens if i tell her to stop but i tell her to stop over 50 times! I dont spank them Yet lol i got the ok from their mom but not dad they act like angels around there dad and he loves them so much he will never lay a hand on them yell at them nothing i know he would be tottally against me hitting them i rather just stop watching them so i wouldn't have to spank them but i dont want their dad thinking i dont like them and i do want to help out with his kids he only get them on the weekends i want to oneday be their stepmom but i dont know what to do. He gets really sensitive over his kids i dont want this to ruin our relationship i just want his kids to have respect for me 😩

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