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Do you know what's the best way to meet guys online that you'd never see in person?

The dating experience I've had both in real life and online hasn't been that successful, but online dating is more effective than the one I've had in real life. MY REAL LIFE DATING Life hasn't even worked or met the type...

TheSimFans

Xper 5 Age: 27

What's the point of giving someone hope if you really have no intent to have a relationship?

It's maybe pathetic already, but something is stuck in my mind and I cannot get it out. Me and my coworker have become really close. To the point we shared many personal secrets and details, we have become touchy-feely...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Third date fail, was I wrong to bring a friend?

So, i’ve met a guy on a dating app, when i saw him for the first time, i was not very attracted by his appearance, but by his photos on the app. He was a bit shy and he came visiting me to my city because, we are 1 hour...

Anonymous

(25-29)

The issue is NOT boys vs girls. Real solutions must address the real problem: so let's address it.

I've read up a good bit on this site having never been a member myself - I have heard the countless woes of girls talking about the horrible guys they have had to deal with, and I have heard the countless stories of guys...

SimonClass

Xper 2 Age: 28

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Should I give up or give it more time?

It's been 6 months since I've known this guy the first time we meet I thought he was weird because he was oversharig a lot like for example he showed me all the pictures in his phone his family cousins and so on and also...

dway_02

Xper 3 Age: 23

Does he have crush on me?

So this guy and i met right before New Years on a wedding! He is kinda shy but very kind person. We have mutual friends and that’s how got known each other. On the wedding my best friend told me that he was looking at me...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Men who are late 30s help-37 year old men can be shy too or is he simply heartbroken?

I’m 30 and I met this men (37 years old) online back in October we chatted for a while since he was in a business trip. So I waited til he came back home I live close to where he lives too. Even though we chatted not met...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is he just too shy to do anything?

There’s a guy I met last semester who sparked my curiosity. We met in a smaller class and he would always make eye contact with me while talking. Sometimes it got kinda awkward. He’d tell a story before class and we would...

Helloeriss01

Xper 7 Age: 25

Is there a chance he’s not asking me out because he’s shy?

There’s a guy who I met last semester who sparked my curiosity. We met in a smaller class and he would always make eye contact with me while talking. Sometimes it got kinda awkward. we’d even have funny discussions before...

Helloeriss01

Xper 7 Age: 25

Girls, how do you feel when a guy hits on you?

When you’re out in public you’ll encounter lots of guys. Random guys you’ve never met. Many are available to be in a happy relationship with a girl. The shy ones mostly won’t talk to you but the outgoing ones will say...

Jim_F

Xper 7 Age: 70

Guys advice please? Am I missing something?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Hey, so I met a guy around 7 yr ago while I was working in a restaurant, he asked for my number &then a few weeks later I got a train to see him for the weekend. We got on really

Hey, so I met a guy around 7 yr ago while I was working in a restaurant, he asked for my number &then a few weeks later I got a train to see him for the weekend. We got on really really well but I didn’t sleep with him as wernt officially dating, we spoke for months after but I ended up going travelling& when I got back he had a girlfriend, I ended up in a 3 year relationship but then we both somehow ended up single at the same time, he contacted me (as must have seen I deleted all photos of ex) we went on a date and the date was just amazing I can’t explain the butterfly feeling he gives me. Still didn’t sleep with him as I’m old fashioned and we weren’t exclusive.. anyways after the date I got back with my ex and we didn’t speak. A year later I’m single & he gets in touch asking if I’m okay and randomly turned up at my house with flowers to cheer me up. we end up talking for a few weeks and he’s asking me why I never make effort to talk to him and why he’s always chasing me (he’s a basketball player so I’m kind of wary that he’s talking to loads of other girls & I’m a bit shy I’m nowhere near as hot) by the way we still haven’t had sex but just having a really nice connection. Again he goes radio Silent on me.. so fast forward a few months and he rings me drunk saying I’m the only person he’s ever loved and he’s so nervous around me etc.. I thought I would make more effort with him so I start finally messaging first and stuff and we plan to have a night away and we talk about having sex & it gets quiet passionate. then again he goes radio silent. so a month goes by & after hearing nothing from him he pops up merry Christmas I love you & one day your going to be my wife which is random as hell since he practically ghosted me twice this year? Then after talking every night on the phone he’s gone silent again? am I reading this all wrong does he even like me or what? or am I just not making enough effort? & no he doesn’t have a wife or a girlfriend I know his family

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Who to know if a guy is a player or he is shy?

He says he still in love with me, And he follows all his classmates girls expect me!! And he says he still in love with me and we were in a relationship with me and I who leave him (*Really he never try to talk with me!!!...

Milania88

Xper 1 Age: 19

What is he thinking?

I told a guy that I like him but not in person. We didn't know each other very well and he said he wants to meet me. I was really happy but after couple of weeks neither of us took a step and I was getting bored at this...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Im.. confused? ?

Me (M20) and my girlfriend (F20) have been dating for about 6 months now. This is my very first relationship, but for her I'm the 6th guy she's dating. Here's a bit about me, I'm a shy, introverted, insecure, defident...

Yellowblue52

Xper 2 Age: 22

Girl's Behavior

Guys what should I do?

by the way im a loser and i haven't been in a long term relationship since 2015 which i forgot what its like to be in a relationship. So its really easy for me to fall in love with a girl now in days which sucks. This is...

chicosuave

Xper 6 Age: 30

Why do we both feel like we have to keep a are friendship secret just because he's a man and Im a woman?

I have a male friend at work and over time we've become really close, I wouldn't say like brother and sister close but I'd say besties who can drink a bottle of wine together and talk shit all night close. We are both...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys, how do I ask this?

im having trouble understanding this guys feelings towards me, he’s the sort of guy that talks to everyone. my friends think he likes me since he caught me alone and came and talked to me a few times and whenever we talk...

Anonymous

(18-24)