im having trouble understanding this guys feelings towards me, he’s the sort of guy that talks to everyone. my friends think he likes me since he caught me alone and came and talked to me a few times and whenever we talk he’s always smiling. we went and watched a horror movie and he made so much physical contact to the point we were cuddling and holding hands at the end. however, after that movie he became a bit distant or maybe its just me, but it wasn’t much eye contact and he went on his phone for a bit and my friend say’s its because he got shy from all the bold moves he made in the dark while watching that movie. today i saw him and we took a little walk and talked and he seemed happy to see me, so we talked a bit and when we said our byes he gave me a fist bump. after that i ignored him because it frustrated me, and id see him looking at me to try and catch my eye like twice throughout the day but he never made an effort to come and talk to me. he used to fist bump me before the whole movie stuff happened too which i believed i was being friendzoned but after the movie and sweet comments he said to me, and now today the fist bump, I’m confused and i dont know what to make out of his actions. should i ask for a second hangout and how should i ask about where he sees our relationship is headed and if were just friends or not without giving hints of me liking him too much..
Guys, how do I ask this?
What Guys Said
What has happened here is quite common here. Apparently this guy decided that you were worth risking for and he did so. We all know that it is easy to get caught-up in the moment and enjoy. This really doesn't mean anything UNLESS you confirm his judgment and move was okay. I DON"T CARE what you think you did... you did not make it clear that he did Good. Not a time to get stupid shy unless you want a Done. I am going to suggest that you grow some Ovaries, walk up to him, reach for his forearm and grab it, "I had lots of fun at the movie... wanted to tell you that" and turnaround and leave. Otherwise, write this guy off.
Time to be an Adult !!
I think asking to hand out again would be a great idea.