Do you know what's the best way to meet guys online that you'd never see in person?

[TheSimFans]

The dating experience I've had both in real life and online hasn't been that successful, but online dating is more effective than the one I've had in real life. MY REAL LIFE DATING Life hasn't even worked or met the type of men that i want. As far as they only interested in being friends and nothing more than just friends in my life right now. I live in England and I can only date men with a learning disability and you won't find shy guys outside of real life. They prefer to stay indoors sometimes them. The only one guy that stands out from the rest of the guys from real life is the guy that i'm texting on messager did match on Facebook dating and i know is very rare to find a shy good guy that might not talk to many women or girls. It's possible I'm mistaken about talking to women. i had 9 ex boyfriend and all them did end. yep even the one good relationship I had while I was in college also did ended. my last ex boyfriend did change into a toxic person complaining about my trust issue that i have with some girls for previous experience with previous ex boyfriend that were cheater. Can you tell me what to do because I can only find men who are assholes and not the type of men I am looking for?

[21Cowboy21]

What exactly made each of all of the past 9 guys you dated assholes per say?

I find females who may date up above their equals (a female 5 dates a male 8 and rejects a male 5 who would commit until she comes to realize the male 8 will only commit to a female 8 so she either upgrades herself or gives up later on and eventually settles down with a nice male 5, but not until later on when she wants kids and someone to help raise them.

When the male 8 won't commit to the female 5's, or when the male 8 commits to the female 8 and rejects the female 5's - the female 5's only then say he's an asshole and wonder why they can't get commitment from the quality guys they want instead of dating the males who were always their equals and would treat them well all along.

Or is there actual specific traits or behavioural patterns that all 9 of your past exes you chose to date while rejecting the male 5's who wanted you all along exhibited and you just got ridiculously unlucky 9 seperste times in a row?

[21Cowboy21]

My response is also slightly bias potentially as this is a vast generalization I have come to see in my own experience when girls go through a break up that ONLY THEN do they call their ex an asshole - while they never did while they were dating or just sleeping together most times.

This may not be the case in your scenario (although for most girls it likely is most times) so I dont know you well enough to conclude that with certainty or not.

[TheSimFans]

That is what is called a generalization, and some women are not like that. I dated or be in relationship with some short men that were all good looking. They can get girls but i still prefer to date a short men over a taller men. This is because they are one of the most coky men that I know and they get mad when i reject them. I receive tons of men that are creeps over 60+. Think before you post. I also added that some were cheaters and one became toxic. I didn't do anything to change him. Instead, his change on is own and was a bad change. I want karma will reck them al. If you reread what I said again, it also ends what I said in detail. What makes them assholes and having an unpleasant experience with some girls. I already mentioned my details. The problem with some women is that they always find a way to compete with others, regardless of whether they are right or wrong.

[21Cowboy21]

Well said thats fair points

[TheSimFans]

There is no point unless it offers a helpful alternative or avidce. I don't see any point of you is zere that how the world is to be zero point and zero poplau if they not smart or intelligent. I do not see any advices anywhere. There is nothing I am looking for that is active, not bullcrap. As I watch this video, I watch a man listening to women and trying to help them. there still hasn't been any advice. so read and reread my detial then see what my most ex boyfriends were asshole and i kept finding asshole in my town and outside of men. These are the loudest assholes I hate. I also hate tall men since I already have bad experiences with them. Angry and pissed off at tall men and older men over 60+ they should be punished. that is why i like splatoon since i can kill them without worrying about anything. Women will always blame the blame game on both men and women. Same with some women with learning disabilities who will use the blame game card in their lives. I am a woman with a learning disbaity and did called out another women with a learning disabity for liying.

[Zandoval]

Well as sort of an introvert from England, the best way is to parttake is hobbies introverts engage in. So you can find someone.

[TheSimFans]

Yes but my ones don’t really go out much and hobbies what do. Thar are mainly to things alone. That why I said shy not a introvert. That stay home and don’t talk to and usually use online social media a lot more then to go out in real world. They is no real good men in real world where I live in a town.

[Zandoval]

Yeah and they have their own online communities and hobbies like gaming for example which you can parttake in. A lot of them are also on apps like discord. There's tons of great guys. You just need to learn to wade through this fuckbois and you're good.

[TheSimFans]

Already has tried some discord and didn't really get shy men. That's a lot of different gaming. I got a game called a splaton. Some guys are not from the Uk. There have been dating apps that are for gamers.

[TheSimFans]

Splatoon 3

[Zandoval]

Well, you can only keep trying... why do you want a shy man?

[TheSimFans]

I would prefer the only one that will listen to me and some other type are too loud. I got a sensitive ear. I can only date men with a learning disability. Since I got a learning disability. I did have bad experience with some girls.

[Zandoval]

Well... either you'll have to widen your dating pool or be more proactive in finding someone like that

[TheSimFans]

I can't even widen my pool option. Already it has to be very proactive in trying to find someone.

[Zandoval]

Right.

[TheSimFans]

Most guys that I was with previously never seem to listen to. Just be wary about some people or women taking the wrong way and might get accused.