What's a good place to meet people in person if you're in your 20s and never been in a relationship?

[Anonymous]

[slatyb]

Continuing education classes. I'm taking a French class at the local community college and it's 22 women and 3 men. You might try a language class if that interests you, or any kind of art class -- drawing, painting, pottery, whatever. Those classes will be largely female. Also consider dance meetups. There are a few in every city of any size.

If you do any of these things, don't immediately hit on the women for dates. Give them a chance to get to know you a bit, and you will know who might be receptive.

[Zack-Bann]

Bars, pubs, clubs
These are the conventional places
You won’t find a wife but you’ll find company


And when you get good you can meet women during activities, sports, literature, the beach


Anywhere social really


The place doesn’t matter as much as your skills

[Anonymous]

Go to school, you will meet many people with similar mindset and goals! Unless you have a different mindset, wherever you go will have the people like you. But around your 20’s is the best time to focus on yourself.

[ProbablyClueless]

If you can find a local hobby or social club, that can certainly work well. Churches and charity events also work.

The trick is to find a good, wholesome group of platonic friends and then use that group to filter eligible women into your life. Think of it kind of like osmosis. It's that same kind of effect, except with women instead of water molecules.