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He was into bigger girls and my friend was very very skinny. She was tiny

But he said it looked like she’d been working out and she had really skinny legs.

He’s a bum guy and my friend has no bum whatsoever then he said don’t need it all.

He also said it’s weird when girls are 5 foot and under but he likes it. She’s basically the same height as me.

He could have easily been able to get my friend rather than me but never tried with her ever. I also snooped his messages and when his friend talked about my friend being attractive he doesn’t join in and doesn’t seem to want to.

He only talks about me in these conversations.

He told me he could appreciate my friend was attractive like he could many girls but he personally didn’t find her good or want to date her. I was his type because I had a bum and facially.

But then he’s turned around and said he doesn’t think I have a big bum now and it’s just proportionally big on me but it’s not a big bum. It’s a nice shape and a good bum but not big. (Even tho everyone tells me I have a big bum, he always tries to bring me down). He said it’s 100% a fat bum but it’s not big. It is just fat and very big for on me.

Was he into my friend or am I overthinking

I was inspired to ask this question when I came across the above photo on Reddit. It was apparently a post about a guy and his girlfriend who used to be very religious Mormons who always dressed "modestly" now becoming "ex-Mormons" who enjoy wearing "short shorts" together and don't pay attention to modesty anymore. And while I thought that was very sweet and "good for them," I couldn't help but notice the enormous length difference between the girl's shorts and the guy's shorts. And whether I liked it or not, it pissed me off. Not necessarily because of this isolated incident itself, but because of how common/widespread this phenomenon is in general. Even when it comes to children's shorts.

Like just look at the picture itself, it's a perfect example... her "short shorts" only have like a 2-3 inch inseam to them and stop at the very TOP of her thighs; while his "short shorts" have at least a solid 7-8 inch inseam to them and stop only SLIGHTLY above the knees, exposing only merely his very lower thighs.

Keep in mind these are supposed to be "short" male shorts too. Usually men's shorts don't show a few inches of thigh above the knee like in the photo. It's not uncommon for men's shorts to be knee-length or below the knee, with an inseam ranging from 12-15 inch inseam. So the length disparity is often even bigger than shown here.

Meanwhile, while the girl's shorts are indeed "short shorts" it's also hard to find shorts longer than that in the women's section, and as a result almost every woman wears that same length of shorts. So by female shorts standards they're not "short" but just "normal." And even the normal length women's shorts are short as fuck when compared to men's "short shorts"... you can kind of see the problem here.

It just feels like the fashion industry is unnecessarily sexualizing women and trying to get them to show way more skin/thigh than their male counterparts. It doesn't feel right.