My boyfriend and I were only together for 3 months. We never fought. One day he told me he was uncertain of the relationship and left but then apologized the same day and I forgave him.
I have a guy friend that is practically my brother (yes I mean that). He and I were both in relationships. I invited my boyfriend to his bday party, I said if he didn’t want to come it was no big deal. That triggered him. He thought I didn’t really want him to come and he thought that was suspicious. He said girls who have guy friends is a red flag. We ended up arguing but I still asked him to come and he did. When we got there he was being weird with me so I didn’t pay it no mind, until I seen he was looking at a girl. I usually don’t ever pay it no mind but this time I told him about it to teach him a lesson on how it felt to be accused. I thought he took it playfully because I thought it was harmless. He laughed at first. Later he told me how mad he was at me for doing that and I apologized and promised it wouldn’t happen again but it was too late. He was furious. I told him well, I did it because I felt you did that to me so I thought it was a harmless way to get you to understand how that feels. While he’s mad at me he’s accusing me of something else about a guy at the party. He misinterpreted something I said to him and made it negative. He was mad at me for accusing but then is accusing me in the same argument. I told him I just wanted him to take accountability. He said he was too old for this and He left me that night. We never spoke again.
He broke up with me over this, was he right?
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He seems controlling. If he isn’t happy with you he was right to break up. I suppose there is women with no guy friends who don’t think that way.
You’ll find someone else. Take it as it isn’t meant to be