Long story short. Me and my ex were supper close for some months. We did everything you can think of and was a good girlfriend until the last week. She broke up with me over some petty thing. We talked, after the break up and she didn’t want to hang out anytime soon as friend for at least a period of time.
She had me blocked on social media but not phone number. She unblocked me on social the other day and then she texted me the next day asking how I was. Then right away she proceeded to ask if I keep an eye on a job situation for next year.
The timing doesn’t make sense to me. It’s barely been a few days since we broke up and all of a sudden she’s over me? Reaching out to me for a favor. Not only that… that job is not a thing till at least 6 more months…
Is she really that selfish and piece of sht? How can she get over this in less than a week when she clearly had feelings and was hurt.
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Dude that's super whack of her. No way is she actually over you after just a week. I think she's just hitting you up cause she wants something, not cause she cares how you're feeling.
It sounds like she just wants you around to do favors for her when it's convenient. But the second you need support, she's "not ready" to hang out. Total bs if you ask me.
I say don't even bother doing her any favors. She doesn't deserve your help after breaking your heart and dumping you so suddenly. She's not your problem anymore.
Just leave her on read if she texts you. Don't give her the satisfaction of seeing you're still paying attention. She's playing games and obviously doesn't care how much she hurt you.
You'll find a way better girl who actually appreciates you, bro. This one just wants to use you when it's useful to her. You can do better than that. Forget about her - she ain't worth your time!
Help her or not. Your choice. Do not waste your time wondering why she behaves like this.
No ideas as far as you know? I just think a week after break up is too soon for anything