I’d like a valuable opinion rather than just to move on. Like, I know but I just want to know why he’s reaching out to me at least once a month before I cut things off and don’t continue the conversation. He says he doesn’t want to be in the relationship right now but it’s like he won’t leave me alone either.
I know you don’t want to hear the response to just move on, but I think you need to move on. Generally guys will do this to leave you on the hook. He will talk to other girls and want to date them, but he likes keeping you on the hook because it fills his ego that someone likes him, that you’ll continue to like him and if all else fails he has a backup. If he wanted to keep you he wouldn’t have broken up with you. The best thing you can do for yourself is to remove yourself from the situation completely so that you’re actually able to heal. It won’t be easy but it does get better
Making sure you don't move on by him keep popping up. He's most likely seeing someone else and keeping you on standby just incase things don't work out with the new one. Just block him
If you are not comfortable with him contacting you so frequently you should tell him so. Or maybe you just don't want him to contact you at all. The question isn't what he wants it's what you want. Figure it out and make it happen.
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I thought only women did that?
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