My boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me over the phone because I got upset that he ignored me? Should I move on and forget about him?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend is a very busy guy. In the first he used to make efforts to see me, reply to my texts and call me. Then the communication became less until there was hardly any. If i text him i love you or anything he dosent reply and if i call him sometimes a week and no respond. This time he didn't answer my call for almost two weeks, i rang him on another number and he said hello when i answered he hung up. I then got mad and texted him saying if he has another girl then i will step out of his way. He broke up with me because i said that. Was I the one in the wrong or will he come back. Is that behaviour right from someone who loves you?

[SueShe]

The fact that you came second behind his work should have been a red alert from the start.

You should never have tolerated to be less important than his job, at least in a serious relationship. The fact that he broke up with you over something like that indicates that the guy has no idea how to set his priorities correctly and he is indeed a toxic person.

The only reasonable thing is to move on and forget about his guy. He is obviously not in love with you and was never really into you. Him making "an effort" in the beginning should have been a warning to you.

Give up this failed relation as he has apparently found another girl. This guy is not someone you want as a boyfriend anyway. He lacks character and personality.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

I'm sorry, but nobody is that busy that they couldn't call you for 2 weeks. That's an excuse for someone that don't see you as a priority/you're not that important to him, because if you were, he'd make time for you...
And that you rang him from another number, he had time to answer that call, right? But then hung Up when it was you should tell you something right there...
Why would you want him to come back? If you ask me, he did you a favor breaking up with you... You should want/find someone that will make you a priority in their life...

[Asker]

I should have known i deserved better, he always stood me up, ignores my texts, when i talk about it he ignores me for days or say i should leave him alone. I dont know why i had put up with this all along.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

And the more you put up with it, the more they'll do it... In my opinion, it would be best to just let him be if that's what he says he wants. And next time he texts or calls you, don't respond. Show him that if he can't make time for you, you can't make time for him

[Asker]

Thanks... the last time we spoke he said the reason he broke up with me was because i said i think he has someone else... its been 3 weeks since we broke up we haven't spoken since..

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

He probably does... But it's easier to put the blame on you...

[Asker]

Thanks for your replies..

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

No problem! Good luck 💜

[buddysboy16]

It's not right and it doesn't sound like he cares about you nearly as much as you do for him

[Iron_Man]

Either work it out or move on