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I met a very handsome foreign man and immediately fall into him, however I am confused if he love me, use me or fool me?

On our first date, we immediately had sex and he was lashing out his failures and dreams in life. He was talking most about hi while I was only listening. After that, he became my boyfriend. He has health problem and so I did helped him in applying for a medical insurance. After a week, he ask to borrow money from me to pay for his house rent. And, I noticed when we went to eat in a restaurant he asked me to pay for all the orders and seems like he doesn’t care about it. A month after, he asked me to have a motorbike loan, cook and clean for him, rent car, register for business and have a bank loan or find investors. Me without hesitation did helped him a lot.

Few months, after I noticed him being demanding in meeting at night or sleeping over in his house. If I don’t, he gets overly mad and threatening me to find other girls. But if I comply to all his demands and wishes, he says to me that he loves me a lot and he wants to marry me one day and make a family with me.

However, while we are in a inclusive relationship and was able to met his friends and sister. I still noticed him Texting or chatting with other girls which he proclaimed as friends. I caught him cheating on bed for one time but I forgave him. He did really work on that, he tried to cook for me and Clean for me and treats me like a princess.

But few months after, I lost a lot of money due to a scam investment and had loans. I wasn’t able to give him anymore money. He got mad and most of the time insulting me useless. One day, I found him cheating again with another woman who has more money. And he left me for her. He said he already get what he wants in a girlfriend.

I’m in my mid twenties and have never had a real relationship. I’ve only slept with one guy and we had a thing, it was intended to be long-term but we decided to be friends instead. I’ve lost weight, so I’ve been skinny and chubby. Regardless of my weight, I don’t notice a difference in the attention that I receive. I’m told I’m cute/pretty, not only by friends/family. The guys I find attractive (I only speak to people through apps) are only wanting sex/ghost/have bad personalities. And the ones I don’t find attractive are always all over me. I no longer have expectations when it comes to dating, I really feel like there’s something terribly wrong with me.

So I’m in my mid twenties and never had an actual relationship. I’m told I’m cute so I don’t know why I never get attention from guys. If I do get attention, it’s typically from the guys that I don’t find attractive. And when they are attractive, they end up ghosting/have shitty personalities/ only want sex. I hear of men going for women and these women have them wrapped around their finger. The one guy I dated was not romantic, he knew he was the first guy I dated and only took me to dinner for Valentine’s Day. Considering the shit that some women put men through, I want to see what I can do to have these men wrapped around my finger and control them to see how much influence I have on them. In other words, the more they are able to do for me, that shows how much they truly care for me. I need someone that would bend backwards for me.

I’m in my mid twenties, I only attract men that I don’t find attractive. I’m told I’m cute, only unattractive/or shorter men want to date. I have attracted decent looking guys, they’re an inch taller than me or my same height, at that point I don’t consider them an option. I have never had an actual relationship, all the men I find attractive only seem to want sex/don’t like me back.

So I’m in my mid twenties and I feel like I am really cursed when it comes to people. I don’t have any close friends, the only people that I interact with on a social basis are online (met through gaming/apps etc). I’m very quiet and am at a point where I’m truly bitter. I do not speak with my family regularly, my father lives out of state & my mother and I are arguing. I don’t like my coworkers and know that some don’t like me either. When it comes to dating, I’ve truly given up. That’s why my mother and I are not talking, she made a statement about how I’m the issue & I play a part in my lack of relationships. I only attract men that I don’t want and the ones I like only want sex/don’t like me back/ are jerks etc. Since I don’t have anyone that can introduce me to people, I use the apps and they’re terrible. People say dating apps work but others say that they’re terrible too. I’m told I’m pretty but can confidently say that I may not be, due to the lack of attention received by the opposite sex.