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So I met all of them this week and I still feel like I’m floating on a cloud. It was so short I had to go in there and ask for what I wanted, for those that actually know them by name Brian and Nick are my faves. I saw a lot of cool poses online and saw one where the guys were on their knees and a fan sat on each guys lap. I’m kinda thick and since I have two faves I asked to sit on Nick and Brian’s lap. When I saw them, I couldn’t move and AJ asked that I stand here but I asked to stand between my 2 faves. When I asked Nick since he came by me sooner, he looked confused and then understood what I was asking for. Security said that they can’t do all that but Nick understood and didn’t seem hesitant. Brian on the other hand looked at me in the eye so confused, I’ve never seen this guy look so dazed in his life. Nick eventually got on his knee and eyed for me to take a seat, Brian still look confused then got his knee and looked at me because I was waiting for him to kneel before I sat on both of their laps. The picture came out nice, Brian had his arm wrapped around my waist but I still can’t get over how he looked at me 🤣

Many women today have hesitations around having kids. For some, it's a matter of finances. For others, it has to do with the fear of losing personal freedom and independence.

Recently, I came across a video where clinical psychologist Jordan Peterson discusses women over age 30 and the roles they choose in life, whether that be career woman or mom. In it, he claims that highly creative women who are moms could balance their lives by being more disagreeable and selfish.

“The trick is, if you’re a highly creative woman, is be disagreeable enough so you can carve yourself out your own space so you don’t come to resent your children.”

“I would say, your best bet is to be a more selfish mother.”

What are your thoughts on this? Could modern moms stand to be more selfish?