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Do relationships work better when the man likes the woman more, or when the woman likes the man more?

From what I’ve seen, there’s usually one person who loves the other a little more, even in relationships that work well. It’s a bit of an uncomfortable topic, but which dynamic do you think actually works better (or has worked better for you)?

Some people say when the man likes the woman more, she gets treated really well but may be more prone to cheating. Others say when the woman likes the man more, the man feels appreciated and grateful, though sometimes he can grow complacent.

Curious what people think. The obvious answer would be a balance but in the case where balance is absent which way do you think tends to work better?

And to define what 'not treating others well' is:

• No interest in, and little or no time for, the other.
• Asking no questions about the other's life or how they are doing.
• Being entirely self-focused.
• Looking for encouragement and support, but not giving it in return.
• Not showing appreciation for the other.

How unwell is the person with depression/stress?
Answer: Highly stressed/depressed.

How long has it been going on?
Answer: Years.

I'm only giving two multiple choice options, which I know is limiting, but it's purposeful. I'm trying to distill a complex issue down to brass tacks.

Thank you, in advance, for all comments and thoughts on the matter. Feel free to elaborate. I'd love to hear your anecdotal and personal stories of how you felt, from either vantage point, and what you concluded and did about it.

P. S. The main reason I left GAG years ago is because GAG sucks ass now, due primarily to management issues being made.
I wasn't going to mention it, but it's happening right now, as I am trying to post this question.

They have programmed A. I. to take over my title, and is repeatedly changing the wording on it.
Fuck off, GAG, and A. I. I will decide what I want to say, and exactly how to say it.

My title should be: Is depression or chronic stress a valid reason not to treat others well?