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We've only been together for 2 weeks however, we've been seeing each other and talking for 5 months. Since the beginning, I knew that he's been extremely stressed out about his money problem. He gambled, lost a lot of cash, and borrowed money from bad people. I thought it wouldn't be as bad because he has a secure job of over 10 years with a decent income. However, it seems like he has to pay those people $2000-$3000 per week. Since he was having trouble, he took the risk to gamble again hoping he can win. In the end, he just got himself into deeper debt. He has told me in the past that because of this, he didn't want to be in a relationship with me. He don't want to have nothing being with me. I don't know what but he changed his mind and we ended up being official 2 weeks ago. I can tell, he's still quite stressed out because of it.

The last time I saw him was on Sunday/Monday. He seemed to be fine. One thing I did notice was he didn't pay anything. He usually pays but this time, he didn't even pay $15 for our lunch. When we were at the mall, he said to me that he's really mad at himself. Before he left, he told me he will come by on Thursday to help me with something. When he left, he sent me a text saying he ran out of gas again and he won't be coming out until his money problem is over. I get that. However, since Tuesday, our communication has died down. He has been sending me one text on Wednesday and one text on Thursday. He only said one word and it was just "Hi". When I respond to it, he didn't reply. I asked him once more if he's coming over on Thursday to help me with something, no response. Yesterday, I sent him a text asking if he's okay. He didn't respond to my text but he sent me a funny video on Instagram. I sent him something back on Instagram but he didn't respond either. Today, no communication from him so far. I haven't heard his voice since Monday since he hasn't been calling me either. What do you think it is? What should I do?

I am NOT good at all in dealing with death. She fell and hit her head last spring and hasn't been the same ever since (not remembering who anyone is, slurring her words, barely responding, staring at the ceiling). She is permanently blind, has brain damage, and now she has kidney failure (this started last week) they have her on morphine pills and she's in hospice. She is 94. Today, we just got the news that she has stopped eating and drinking all together. She has gotten significantly worse and if we want to visit her to say goodbye it has to be this week, because they don't think she will make it to next week. I have NEVER been to a funeral, but I have dealt with pets dying and it takes me MONTHS to recover! We would visit her on Thursday. I just hate to see her suffer on her death bed and I know I'm gonna cry. I can't believe all this has happened in a year. I have also heard some people say their dying relatives hold out on death until people who they want to visit, visit them and I really don't want her to die when were there. I don't want to get haunted, I'm scared of that too. She's a really sweet lady and funny and I'm so sad about all of this. It's not fair. I have this LED light up angel she gave me in 4th grade and I want it to be placed in her casket when she dies but I can't even look at it without completely losing it! Should I visit her? What do I say? Should I give her the angel then or wait until she's dead?