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Search Results: losing a first love
Everyone keeps telling me it’s because my mother is losing control of me but I am still not too sure?
My mother is control freak, whether she likes it or not. A few months ago my husband (who has never absolutely loved my mom) and I decided we are going to move to the east coast. It’s a huge move and no one in either of...
Anonymous
(30-35) Scared to live life?
It seems like I never know what to do, when it comes to life and unexpected situations. It seems like everyone around me has everything figured out, and able to get things done. I feel like if I were in that same...
Anonymous
(36-45) What's the point of "firsts" when you are a late bloomer?
They say first love, first relationships, first kiss, etc. is special. Although, when most people tend to think of "first love", most don't think of people who are almost 30 falling in love for the very first time or...
Almost_Incel
Xper 2 Age: 31 How am I going to get over her and the fact he is going to be her first everything (first love, first kiss, first sex)?
I met this girl online a few years ago (2020) and we hit it off. We had an online thing going for several months. She never had a male friend before she met me, never had a boyfriend, never had her first love, and was...
Almost_Incel
Xper 2 Age: 31 There is always something going wrong in my girlfriends life and it’s starting to affect me, what should I do?
We started going out about a year ago, we have so much in common but over the last year more and more issues have been popping up. First, she lives at home and has a very stressful home life, she basically has to take...
Anonymous
(30-35) I think I’m losing attraction to my partner, which makes me sad because I really love her. What can I do to fix this?
We’ve been together for almost 2 years. I’ve had people tell me that I’m “out of her league” and they’re surprised that I’m dating her. I never cared about that though, she’s always been really cute to me. She’s still...
Anonymous
(25-29) Afraid of losing my first love, what do I do?
A few months ago, I met the most amazing girl ever. I fell for her instantly, and I can't stop thinking about her. She's on my mind, day and night. I know them well and get on with them just fine, they probably don't know...
Anonymous
(18-24) I was supposed to be a gold digger and marry rich but I turned into a self-sufficient businesswoman instead
Hello readers. I am sharing my story of how I was raised and supposed to be a what society calls "gold digger" marrying rich but I rebelled strong, long and hard and I ended up being a autonomous businesswoman instead. It...
Anonymous
(30-35) Does my husband still want to be with me or is he just being nice?
To make the back story short, I haven't been making any progress with my life do to depression the last few years. I also was smoking weed every night instead of occasionally. We fought a lot bc of this. He works out of...
Anonymous
(36-45) "Men aren't meant to be monogamous, it's not in their nature"...True statement or bull excuse?
This Mytake was originally meant to be posted as a question based off a recent conversation I had with someone(if you can call it that 🙄) (I've also seen some guys say that on here) I realize there's points I want to...
Should I tell her how I feel?
Ok, there is this girl who I am losing interest in, but still like to be her friend. Only thing is she is... Annoying. When we first started talking, she blatantly, out of nowhere, was like, hey, just want to let you know...
Anonymous
(30-35) Love and Relationships in 2022: The Way Through
Dating. People. Relationships. They remain some of peoples' greatest curiosities. This is why many of us/you are here. You want to know how others think. Especially in terms of how they think about you. What is your value...
Why do I feel bad for him? Is he worth it? please let me know :(?
My boyfriend broke up with me when we were 21, he wanted to sleep around and be free, I was devastated when he broke up. He came back a year later saying that he still loves me and wants us back, I told him I don't trust...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is it a phase we can get past or is it over (19mbf, I’m 20f, 1.5 years dating, same college?
he started making great friends around the first week. I’m happy because he deserves them but a few weeks ago it seems like he started losing interest in me. He prefers them, says he’s busy studying then is really hanging...
Yoshifan
Xper 1 Age: 24 Is he really "not ready" or does he just not like me enough?
We’ve been texting everyday and calling very often for 6 months. When I addressed this closeness and how it’s gotten me to catch feelings, he said he doesn’t feel the same way. So then when I said that I needed to put an...
Anonymous
(25-29) How to get over losing a friend, er, girlfriend; work spouse, whatever?
I am married with kids. I became close friends with a girl at work. After three years of having her in my life, the tension and the feelings were too much. I felt romantic feelings existed but neither of us talked about...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why do I keep getting ghosted by guys I like after they find out that I’m a virgin?
It really makes me so sad and insecure. It’s been way too many times and I just don’t know what to do anymore. I have great conversations and connections with guys but once they find out that I’m a virgin they just ghost...
Sarahdelacruz
Xper 5 Age: 30 How do I stop hurting?
I am 27 and never had a real girlfriend. I had an online thing with this girl for several months. She is 18, a devout Catholic, never had a boyfriend, and never even had a male friend before she met me. She was...
Inthecraphole
Xper 5 Age: 31 My Experience Struggling with Depression, Body Dysmorphic Disorder, and Never Being "Good Enough"
This is just me getting my personal thoughts out of the way. For a very long time now, I've felt depressed about my physical appearance and the way I looked. I had something called Precocious Puberty, to where for some...
MCheetah
Editor Age: 39 ROM (Reflections on Music) - Losing your loved one?
This series is called ROM (Reflections on Music)... searching for the meaning in songs and how we relate to them. My men's group was talking about grief and loss, and this song ran into me this morning in my youtube...
