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I always thought that the good guys would appreciate a girl that doesn’t come with a lot of baggage. I’ve only had sex and dated one guy, lol I haven’t had sex since and this was over 3 years ago. I feel the opportunity could have happened but I really just don’t have the urge to sleep around. I live alone, I could have had guys over. People say that I’m just a square but I just don’t have the urge. But sometimes I think screw it, I should try to live it up because I’m on the road to being a spinster anyway. I want a quality guy but really guys don’t give me the time of day, I’m told I’m attractive, few of you agreed. But I don’t get approached in person, I’ve tried dating apps only but have not had any luck besides the last guy I dated. Quite frankly, nothing was lucky about that. I felt like I was settling physically and would have preferred to remain a virgin. I don’t care if I never have sex again, I would like a quality guy though. Don’t want kids either, I just worry years down the line I will feel regret for being so antisocial and living an uneventful life. But I just can’t wrap my head around why the kind of guy I want wouldn’t have come around yet, most educated attractive women have no issue getting a date.

My uncle got very drunk once and during and argument with my aunt in front of other relatives, said something along the lines:
''I fucking sacrificed my freedom for you, sacrificed it all. I did it all for you. You're not ok with my dislike in worthless travel trips but I had to accept settling down with you and form a family. You fucking won. I never wanted any of that.''

I can’t help but let this bring my self esteem down. Most people I know my age are seeing someone or if they’re not, they have previous LTRs. The longest I saw a guy was for a few months back when I was 23 and quite frankly, I should have stayed single and a virgin. He had a decent personality but he wasn’t my preference physically and it felt like settling. I know I’m not a 10 but I’m told I’m attractive (not only by family/female friends), you all gave me a good rating for the most part. I just refuse to settle, I only have used dating apps but it’s worked for a lot so that shouldn’t be a deal breaker. How could someone go this long being single? All I can get are the ones that I’m not really into, if they check my boxes physically, they lack in personality or they’re the ones that aren’t into me. Regardless of how this makes me feel, since most women have it very easy, I’d rather be alone than taken and even more miserable.

The guy I’m talking to, he had a 10 year relationship that recently ended but with me, he is saying that I seem perfect for him and he actually sees himself settling down with me and marrying me. I know his intentions are good.
but after 10 YEARS (they started dating at age 15-25 now), I think he’s going to want to date and sleep around and figure out what he’s missing. He’s in his prime!
how do I tell him I don’t think it’s best in the long run?
I don’t want to hop in a relationship with him and then have him resent me for taking away his prime years. help

Personally, I think people should date in their 20’s but wait until their 30s to start settling down. Go live your life! Travel, party, build your foundation. What are your thoughts?