27F and never brought a guy home to meet my family, red flag?

[Anonymous]

I can’t help but let this bring my self esteem down. Most people I know my age are seeing someone or if they’re not, they have previous LTRs. The longest I saw a guy was for a few months back when I was 23 and quite frankly, I should have stayed single and a virgin. He had a decent personality but he wasn’t my preference physically and it felt like settling. I know I’m not a 10 but I’m told I’m attractive (not only by family/female friends), you all gave me a good rating for the most part. I just refuse to settle, I only have used dating apps but it’s worked for a lot so that shouldn’t be a deal breaker. How could someone go this long being single? All I can get are the ones that I’m not really into, if they check my boxes physically, they lack in personality or they’re the ones that aren’t into me. Regardless of how this makes me feel, since most women have it very easy, I’d rather be alone than taken and even more miserable.

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[Dchrls78104]

What are you worried about? I am 44 and have never do much as dated or kissed a girl. Your situation wouldn't be a red flag for me; if anything, it would be a green flag, because I value and respect people like myself.

[steveRogers12]

There is nothing wrong with being discerning but unlikely someone is going to check all the boxes perfectly

[Luckycharms12]

As you said you not perfect either is anyone else so be responsible

[KatherineJ]

I don’t see it as a red flag.