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If a man is looking for a break-up and wants her to leave, I think this is one way:

- Do a fake marriage proposal prank (then laugh and say it's just a prank) or after 2+ years together tell her ''you're a great girlfriend but you're not wife material''

- Tell her you were just with her for other reasons and that she was never that physically attractive, that in fact she was kind of plain looking and that he just had sex out of pity.

I can't think of a woman that wouldn't be crushed. I've seen several stories about women that pretend to agree with the guy on just living together but secretly wished they were proposed; they are hurting on the inside. Then mocking her on the physical features, our main market value... she's leaving for sure.

Wouldn't doing that to a woman be similar to insulting a man's strength, calling him small, making pranks about him being sissy or mocking his ability as a provider?

Same as no man wants to be seen as weak and getting denied as a provider, no woman wants to be perceived as ugly and getting denied as a wife. Is that the equivalent?

I don't know I've noticed men just want women that wear makeup even if its a little bit, and have some feminine side to them. But I don't wear makeup, it hurts my skin and Its hard to get off and I hate the implication behind it like how I'm pressured to wear it. I've always never worn it yet I see all the women in the media wear it both fiction and real. I see a lot of women Ik that wear it and pressure me to wear it. What am I supposed to do? I'm not liked by anyone because I'm seen as someone that doesn't care about my looks, but I am not used to caring about my looks alongside not doing makeup, I don't get hair, or fashion either. Hell, I didn't even realize there were boy and girl clothes I've grown up just seeing them as pieces of materials and nothing more.

I'm not even masculine in personality Im just masculine in my style, it confused the hell out of my past bfs who got confused by my shy sensitive nature but then would never see me wear makeup, dresses, or know how to do my hair. I felt really bad and fake too.

Should I just get a girlfriend... I'm already bi so?
Should I try being feminine? considering I never have done it before...
Should I try wearing a little bit of makeup? despite sensory problems and co. wtf
sorry that ths is long

Just wondering.

I was discussing this with my friends, they all decided differently.