Guys, How do you become the "good" girl if you're the "bad" one? What do I need to change about myself and my reputation to achieve that?

Anonymous

As someone who has only been insecure about being a 4/10 by looks and that fact since a kid, I was constantly bullied by the guys at my school for being a good girl. I always wondered how I could be seen as attractive and as girlfriend material. Since my parents are from an arranged marriage they could never give me proper advice in dealing with dating in North American society. So I turned to the internet and what around me culturally to advance myself into the bad girl because I thought that was what would land me a boyfriend. like for example; I've always heard that in pop culture, "oh she's bad!" in songs and movies plus heard many stories about how good girls finished last because men just always left them for the bad girl because she is boring. Now, 22 just got dumped for being the bad girl who guys just fuck and leave. I want to do better and change my image sadly now realize how feminism and the "bad" girl mentality have not done me any favours in my dating life. I'm hurt and crying because I want to be that girl that guys want to take out on a date, take home to mama and want to take me shopping. The girl he admires and loves. What do I need to change about myself and my reputation to achieve that?

Looks: 4/10

Dress size: depending on the brand is a 4 to 6

Weight: 140 IB

Height: 5'2

Career: Accounting

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The guy that dumped me called me a 4 but at that point, I would have said I'm a 6
Guys, How do you become the "good" girl if you're the "bad" one? What do I need to change about myself and my reputation to achieve that?
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