Guys, would you be frustrated if a girl you were dating didn't give it up yet?

[Anonymous]

Guys would you be frustrated if a girl you have been dating for awhile hasn't given it up yet? If so, after how much time would you become frustrated? I'm trying to figure out if it's counterintuitive for me to tell guys I'd like to wait for sex (theoretically they will wait until I'm sure they're a good person).

[MCheetah]

Only if she was playing games. Like, after four to six months.

I can understand a girl wanting to wait for sex, and that's actually a good thing. But many men will also think you're just playing them/using them, if you don't make it clear that you're waiting to trust them first. So it's best to tell the man this outright; that you're waiting, so he doesn't feel like you're using or playing him. Then he can decide if you're worth the wait or if he's too impatient and will move on to some easier chick. So just be honest and tell him.

[Asker]

And what if he tries everyday after i’m honest? I’ve had this one time where after I was honest with the guy he would try hard to see like a good person then be sexual afterwards to see if I was sure about him yet

[MCheetah]

Then if that happens, they don't respect your boundaries and it's best to just leave them.

[slatyb]

If she thought she was "giving it up", we wouldn't be dating.

[Pohjolan]

Nah. It's not like I would suddenly forget how to masturbate.

[Brando10222]

As long as she's into me and is honest I don't mind

[BarryLiverstone]

It’s a conversation. Obv not having sex until she’s ready and feels safe. When would she want to?

[Anonymous]

Of course not. I can f*** other women till she's ready. 🤣🤣🤣

[Avicenna]

A few weeks