Guys, Would this be a reason you would lose interest in a girl?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been on about 5 dates with this guy. Things have been going really well and we have a nice connection but we’re not dating yet and we both expressed our interest in each other but we also agreed that we want to take things slow. Yesterday he told me that he’s going on vacation next month and he asked me to go with him. While I would love to go with him, I also know that he most likely will have expectations for that vacation and want to have sex. I’m not ready to have sex with him yet, as I would only have sex with him if we were exclusive and actually dating. That’s my rule. I wasn’t sure if I should’ve talked to him about my concern but I ended up doing so and he told me that he would never force anything on me and that he understands and this doesn’t change anything between us. Even with him saying that I can’t help but wonder if that’s how he really feels about it. So my question is, guys how would you feel if a girl told you this, would you lose interest in her?

[slatyb]

"I've been on about 5 dates... but we're not dating yet". I assume that you mean you aren't exclusive?

Your feelings are perfectly reasonable. Women I've been seeing have asked me "Are you seeing anyone else?" If he's wants to see others too, it's reasonable for you to want to wait until he's ready to make that small commitment.

[OddBeMe]

That is rather forward. I don’t want to chalk up the act to sexual frustration. Us guys have a lot of pressure to keep you gals interested. It could be he had a vacation planned and is afraid you’d date someone else on the interim.

Turn him down but schedule FaceTimes with him, etc.

[Surely]

I would think that most guys after five dates, while not seeing anyone else, would consider the two of you dating.
After all. So many of your sisters on here. Claim to have hot sex on the first date.
If you are a girl that requires a guy to put a ring on me Or marriage, then you need to tell him this! Before going on vacation with him’

[vikas3007]

I will not loose internet in her, if both of them are eager to have it and if even one tells that it would be impossible to be without sex, then it might be a deal breaker if sex is off the table. I would personally respect the other person’s internet.

[kinggeorge007]

It's kinda tricky and 5 dates and then a one-month vacation is kinda a noob move. But you can still save it by being close to him, giving him the warmth he seeks just a step away from sex while on the vacation if you decide to go on the vacation.

[Adam1978]

After 5 dates you can certainly expect to have the exclusive talk. But I would expect people to join on a vacation, that's too soon.

[Iron_Man]

She’s battling me constantly over nothing and enjoys getting me pissed off. Cheaters lazy women they don’t lift a finger in the house especially when they’re living in it for free.

[GMANN56]

I wouldn't lose interest. I would fully expect to be able to wine, dine and...
all the rest, before we even went on the vacation. I mean, I think you are close.

[Sam_The_Savage]

I simply block her after a minute if she told me this...

[KrakenAttackin]

He's not a Chad otherwise you would have given up the pooty on date one.

[20yearsolder]

No I wouldn't lose interest in her

[JesseJayNeak]

Yes I would. Not by much though

[Anonymous]

GET OUT OF YOUR HEAD