Guys, why would you show interest in a girl then back off when she shows interest back?

Anonymous

I was only on professional terms with this guy never flirted never showed any kind of romantic interest I did acknowledge that he's attractive. Anyways he started flirting with me a lot within a short span of time, still I was neutral towards him but then the flirting kept on increasing and he would spend extra time with me after work hours when he didn't need to.

He would even change his busy schedule just to see me and hang out with me. At first I thought he just wanted sex maybe cause of all the flirting but then he started asking me a lot of questions about my life my hobbies my interests my family my studies where I live what I do in my free time etc. obviously it all led me to think he's actually interested in me so when I showed a little bit of interest back he completely backed off and became kind of cold. I backed off myself seeing that.

I don't understand. He was the one who showed interest in me since day 1. So what's up now?

Guys, why would you show interest in a girl then back off when she shows interest back?
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