Am I stupid for having a crush, knowing she cheats?

[Jorudi]

For context, me (20) and her (19)

So I've know this girl for 4 years. 4 years I've liked her. She told me she used to kiss guys while she was in a relationship. This was when she was 14-15.

But when I met her she was dating this guy. 4 years later.
Me and her stopped talking for 6 months.

After those 6 months, we meet up and she told me she broke up with her boyfriend. Again she dated for 4 years. Apparently she cheated on him. That's what she told me.

That same day i slept with her. And it was nice. And she is genuinly caring, basically want u want from a girl. But she cheats!!
And I don't know what to do. She also took my virginity away. She was my first everything. Really... Everything. And im happy it was her. Cuz like i said she is really like perfect girlfriend material, minus the cheating.

I feel so stupid, why do I still like her? Even if me and her start dating, she will probably cheat again, I don't know.

Also im not interested in sex buddies. Just not my style xd.

Try and date her

Stay friends

[PrettyPriya]

This is not someone I would be interested in. Once a person has cheated, it isn't hard for him/her to do it again. That is just the type of person they are. I would stay far away from this one.

It isn't worth the risk in my opinion. Find someone that is loyal. Now, you can't always tell a person's past history with dating. However, you know about this girl and her past. That is enough to move on and find someone that hasn't (to your knowledge) cheated.

Sounds like this girl gets bored and doesn't handle things properly. She should just break up prior to engaging in relations with another guy. However, she does the super sneaky thing and goes behind a guy's back.

If that isn't enough of a red flag, I don't know what is.

[Jorudi]

Ig ur right.

[1GoldTwins]

That Does sound pretty stupid! Love can make you blind. Good you asked the question. Listening to us can save you from heartbreak and STDs!

[razelove]

Stay friends, seems like her pattern is to sabotage a relationship the moment it feels comfortable. Seems like your dick is leading you to her like a dousing rod. Never define the relationship to let it become comfortable. Be ambiguous. Granted I would just not get involved, my first wife was like that, and it's so so much fun to catch an STD when you haven't fucked anyone else, and they still try to blame you.

Real sweethearts, have fun with that one.

[IJhonnyI]

Look it doesn't matter its just a crush but don't try to start a relationship with her cause you know that's not gonna work out you should try to work on getting rid of this crush as soon as possible cause it's nothing but bad news might not even be friends at the end of the day if you don't

[IJhonnyI]

And the fact your not into sex buddies see you better get the fuck out of there then I just read the rest my opinion still goes perfectly get out of there your not in love buddy your blinded sorry to tell you

[boggboss]

Yes you are a idiot for thinking dating her would be a good idea

[Jorudi]

Lmao yeh💀

[Whatever2929292]

You can ask her out and see how things go. But I would be careful going further

[msc545]

Stay friends unless you can tolerate her cheating on you.

[exitseven]

It will be fun until she cheats on you.

[Marianna546]

... I don't know what to say

[Fuentes]

Smash her and dip. do not wife that

[LazerBean]

Yes, you are stupid.

[Anonymous]

Yeah just give her permission to cheat

[Wise4myage]

C. Yes, why bother?

[Jorudi]

Idek, no point in trying

[Anonymous]

Yeah.