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What are you hoping for when you ask a girl to be your girlfriend? (read scenario)?
IMAGINE this: You're friends with a girl. She's beautiful inside and out, you get along really well, there has been some flirting going on. You eventually ask her to be your girlfriend, and she says yes! Now you...
SnowyOwl
Explorer Age: 29 Am I the Asshole?
So I got pregnant by a guy I was just sexually involved in. Around the time we had unprotected sex, I had a situation go on that distracted me from what I needed to do, which was get the plan B. I take fully...
Anonymous
(30-35) My ex broke up with me, but now may want to get back together. Do I tell him if I was with someone when we were split?
My ex broke up with me after two years. I was very much still in love with him and was absolutely devastated for two months or so but after about five months and with very minimal contact with one another I started to see...
Anonymous
(25-29) Should I cnosider moving to be with a woman I see real potential with?
Some backstory. We met in college, we were the same major. We fooled around a bit during that time. I really liked her, and I wasn't a virgin when we met, but close to it lol. I liked her too much, got too nervous and...
wtf636
Xper 5 Age: 39 "Girls Don't Know What They Want [in Relationships]": The Real Reasons Behind This Male-Created Myth
This is the first in a series of articles I'll be writing debunking some commonly-held myths about dating, society and life. Myths are beliefs - widely-held but false and erroneous conclusions. They make sense, they're...
!["Girls Don't Know What They Want [in Relationships]": The Real Reasons Behind This Male-Created Myth](https://cf.girlsaskguys.com/a65780/thumb-672-378.jpg "\"Girls Don't Know What They Want [in Relationships]\": The Real Reasons Behind This Male-Created Myth")
Did I show too much interest too soon and that’s what freaked this guy out?
We were seeing each other once a week 5-6 hour dates, and having sex after. After the 5th time / 1.5 months I told him I really liked him. He said he really liked me too. But because of some personal reasons with him...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why the number of sexual partners doesn't matter. A counterpoint to @Truthbringer.
I don't believe in censorship of opposing ideals so please feel free to post here as you'd like with your thoughts. Some of us can accept criticism. : ) Insecurity. It's a word that angers some and describes many more...
Ez-Bri-Z
Editor Age: 46 My "Life Isn't Fair" Journal Entry/Rant
I just woke up. I had a bad dream. A realistic one. I have so many thoughts racing through my head right now, all jumbled and chaotic like a tornado. I was thinking about why I was unhappy with myself. Why I despise...
MCheetah
Editor Age: 39 'Dumped' by dismissive-avoidant affair partner (AP) after 1.5 months. How do I heal and move on?
Long time lurker, but first time poster. 37M married for 7 years - no kids. Met the AP (35F) on OkC 2 months ago. We hit it off & things moved fast - we were meeting 1-3 times/week. My wife didn't suspect anything...
virusbkk
Xper 3 Age: 42 Guy vanished on me for a month and now won’t leave me alone. Should I give him another chance or will he just do it again?
A couple months ago I gave this guy my number at a store who I had seen a couple times. He asked me out on a date right away, we went out and had a nice night. Continued messaging. A few nights later he asked me over to...
Anonymous
(30-35) Here's What I Like About Men, Part II
I like when you are... So there's a lot of negativity in the world, a lot of things to feel negative about. It's legit, I know. There are some topics I want to tackle, and eventually will; I've got half-written...
Did I come on too strongly to this guy, yes or no?
I had been seeing him for a couple of months casually (once a week due to schedules). He considered it dating, and we would hang out for 5 hours at his place and then later have sex. 2 months in I told him that I was...
aintnocandle
Xper 5 Age: 32 How should I go about this?
My fiance went over to his parents house last weekend and I couldn't go because I had to work. Usually his parents are in bed by 9 pm. So on Saturday night I was missing him so I text him around 10/11 pm to " Baby I'm...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is it wrong to date multiple people if none of the relationships are official?
I've recently started dating on OkCupid and I'm talking to 18 different women. This is the first time I've ever tried dating (I'm 24 by the way) and I honestly don't know what I'm doing. I just found a bunch of women that...
Anonymous
(25-29) 
Guy I’m dating thought I blocked him because I was pregnant with his baby? he called me multiple times.. was that just a cover up?
So we have been dating and having sex for a few months now. Once unprotected, the first time. I made this joke last time I was with him about how I lied to him that night and somehow he jumped to the conclusion I lied...
Anonymous
(30-35) Three Rules For First Date!
Three 1st Date Rules Some thumb rules to have a good interpersonal impression on other : For the sake of understanding, imagine you're on a date with me. ;) (1) keep the information flow limited ... People often ask here...
fonduegirl
Guru Age: 25 Guy tells me he can’t do a serious emotional relationship, but he’s showing feelings for me and I am confused?
We were casually dating (dating, hanging out having a good time and having sex). He recently graduated and is in a huge transitional stage in his life right now so when I asked about us a month ago he told me we should...
Anonymous
(30-35) Guy completely pushing me out of his life until after his bar exam. He hasn’t talked to me in a week. Why so extreme?
we’ve been dating for 2 months now, seeing each other and having sex. A few weeks back I asked him where he saw us going and he said he couldn’t get super involved/more commitment and time before his bar exam which is the...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is my boyfriend having an emotional affair?
Before we met, he met this girl off tinder. They started talking and had feelings for each other, they have had sex as well, but she decided not to pursue it because she was moving away. However, they are still...
Billie_
Explorer Age: 27 How to get guys to understand that I've never dated anyone before?
I have never been in a relationship before. I'm 25 and I am pretty (what I have been told). I'm not being full of myself or anything. Growing up I was never allowed to date mostly because my dad was very over protective...
Anonymous
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