Search Results: importance of looks

Recently, I've been thinking a lot of the many harmful stereotypes towards people of the LGBT spectrum, especially when it comes to women. Not only lesbians but also bisexuals, pansexuals, asexual etc. because of their physical appearance, fashion choices and gender identity. Firstly, many queer femme or "feminine-presenting" girls & women are always assumed as "straight, that they only look good to attract men or at least masculine-presenting people, even though femmes can be attracted to other femmes. Never the fact that they feel that they have to come out every day, and when they do, nobody takes them seriously, not by their family & friends, not by straight men who always try to hit on them, not even by other people of the LGBT spectrum.

This short comic is a perfect example of the importance of femme visibility femme invisibility:

On the other hand, Butch or "masculine-presenting" queer girls & women also have a problem but different, including the expectations both Lgbt and non-Lgbt people, have (being strong, no emotions, people threatened by them, accused as being either a "man" or "trans" and people telling that they're ugly because they don't fit the stereotypically feminine norm, despite the fact that there's more than one type of femininity and being butch doesn't always mean "masculine". Even women who aren't LGBT and aren't gender-conforming are always assumed, perceived or accused to be lesbians despite the evidence or proof that their not.

Not many image or comic examples but here is one:

To be honest, I'm sick and tired of humans judging certain groups or others by their looks just because of how the media, fiction, books and other forms stereotype them. Humans are supposed to be an "intelligent" species, so when will they learn?

Finally, I would love to see your answers whether or not femmes or butch have it harder.

Note: I might do one for men too.

1. In order of importance. Most to least.

. Height. (Height is everything for women. First and foremost.) Most single men are under 6 ft.

2. Face. ( must be at least average looking and easy on the eyes.)

3. Money ( If you can't provide for a woman, you are basically useless.)

4. Personality. ( kind and playful.) Personality isn't that important to women. Just as long as your not rude to strangers.

5. Feared by others (women dont want a guy that is innocently looking and approachable. They want a guy that has the ability to easily intimidate others.) (Protector)

6. Large penis ( women want a guy with a hefty thick penis that fills and stimulates her vaginal capacity during sex.)

7. Has a lot of friends ( women want a guy who is liked by other people and has people to hang out with other than her. If a guy has no friends, he will be seen as a loser cuck.)

8. Enjoys doing house work. ( women want a guy that takes pride in helping around the home and enjoy home improvement. (Cooking, fixing things, building things, maintenance, etc.)

9. Generosity. (Women appreciate when you show that you care. But not so much because they dont like guys that are too nice.

10. Altruistic. ( women admire a guy who helps other people in need. But isn't really a priority.)

11. Loves animals. ( anyone who doesn't love animals cannot be trusted lol)