After reading story about Kristin Cavallari divorcing Jay Cutler, here are 9 things I can conclude
1. Marriage is Volatile
Marriage is volatile because it's difficult to know when a marriage will fail & how a marriage will break down. Hence, marriage is volatile & a potential ticking time bomb.
2. Marriage Offers Questionable ROI
Marriage has questionable returns of investment (ROI) because it's difficult to estimate how long the marriage will last & how it will fail. Hence, calculating ROI is important before deciding to marry or not.
3. Marriage = Increased Possibility of a Vicious Child Custody Battle
When I read the story about Kristin Cavallari demanding child custody, I realized that there's a possibility of a vicious child custody battle happening if the marriage fails due to divorce.
4. Marriage is Utterly Meaningless
Marriage is utterly meaningless because it's just a piece of paper. Why marry a woman, if all I get is a piece of paper certificating a marriage. Hence, marriage has no intrinsic value.
5. Hanging Out with My Bros & Friends More Fun
Why marry a woman, when I can have more fun with my bros & friends without landmines that comes with marriage.
6. Marriage Comes with Disappointment
When Albert Einstein stated "Inevitable both men & women are disappointed when they marry", I interpret his quote as marriage unavoidably leaves both parties worse off.
7. Marriage = Increased Risk of Alimony or Child Support
Marriage leading to increased risk of alimony or child support means I lose money that could be spent on my hobby such as video games.
8. Marriage Means Loss of Individual Liberty
When Albert Einstein stated "Marriage is but slavery made to appear civilized", I interpret his quote as marriage means loss of liberty because both parties have to sacrifice their individual liberties to make their 'marriage' work. As a result, I would lose everything I cherish to make 'marriage' work.
9. Compatibility is 100% Important
Compatibility is 100% important if both parties want to have increased chance of functional marriage.
The 9th point teaches me to find a woman who's compatible with me & point #1-8 taught me the double-edged aspect of marriage.
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