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Me and this girl (ill call her Lisa) had been talking for a few months online before we decided to meet up, not a lot happened since we went to a busy city and were just getting used to being around eachother.

After that I was really uncertain if she liked me since I had to start al the conversations and she didn't look at me when she spoke. Then a friend of her (who I knew and I see as a good friend) messaged me telling me that Lisa liked me a lot without a doubt, but that she needs time to get used to dating since she is unexperienced.

A week later I went to Lisa's house and we watched netflix together, this time she was way less awkward, but everytime we sat down she sat so far away from me, and when I said things like "c'mon don't be shy" she moved away as a joke before getting only an inch closer than before. so when I went home I was still confused.

Everytime I say something on dm that has something to do with dating (e. g. date night, cuddle) she becomes really awkward: she takes long to respond, or doesn't at al.

A week after that she comes over to my house (its a 2.5h trip for her because she doesn't have a licence and the public transport route is shit so its quite a big deal) and gave me a ring that says "forever connected". We had a great time making the best of the shit weather, but again everytime I sat close to her she got awkward.

Everytime I mssg her that I'm going to a party she says "be loyal :)".

I really like her, but I don't see any progress and I'm confused what she wants. need advice with this one :/

A few years ago I was in between jobs and had a lot of free time. I talked a lot to a girl on Tumblr until she decided to start working on a cam site. I followed her there, but after she left the site I stayed. I ended up meeting another girl who was working on the site to pay for college. We decided to end the sexual component quickly as it was making things awkward. A year passed and we became very close. We talked for hours almost every day on the site, in messages, and in Skype calls. She left the cam site just before graduation and I left with her. She trusted me enough to eventually give me all of her personal info. It's now been 3.5 years and we are still Skyping 2-3 time per week and talking a lot in texts. We know everything about each other. She is basically the girl of my dreams. She's more beautiful than any girl iv'e ever met, smart, funny, courageous, I can go on and on. The problem is, she has over 50 recorded sex videos online. Her name was exposed by a guy that harassed her in the past. If you search her full name, you can find everything. I know most of these videos will never disappear, and it's already been found by many of her friends, sister, and mother. I come from a very conservative family and they would never accept her past. As the years pass, more and more videos are posted. Every new video kills me a little more inside. I worry how this would impact our future. We don't live in the same country, so a real relationship will require complete investment. When i'm in doubt, we see each other in Skype and all the doubts disappear. She makes me more happy than anyone else ever has, and she understands me like nobody ever has. I'm not really thinking of ending things with her, I'm just curious what others think. Any input, experiences, or advice would be helpful. Thanks.

So my question is:
Would you date someone who previously worked on a cam site, if they were basically the girl/guy of your dreams?