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How do I tell this problem to my boyfriend without offending him?

So my boyfriend has been asking his best mate out for our dates and at first I really dont mind but I just didn't like it where my boyfriend kept paying for all of our meals, movie tickets and also cab whenever we hang...
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Are these controlling behaviors?

My boyfriend (he's from Canada) and I met years ago. We dated for 10 months and were very intimate. However we've been in a long-distance relationship since 2016. He's been getting weird and would you consider these...
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Are relationships basically dying/dead?

I'm not here to talk shit I'm here to inform you on the situation. Dont just reply with reactionary bullshit. But relationships are asinine. Girls can take your stuff without even being married to you. All they have...
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I'm Not Physically Attracted to Him, But I Have Some Feelings For My Friend. Could It Be a Phase or True Feelings?

I'm 21 years old, and I'm a Junior in College. Most of you know what I look like, while most of you might not. I will include a recent picture of myself image the end of this MyTake. On campus, my co workers and friends...
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I am not sure what I should do in this circumstance?

A year ago I recindled a friendship with an ex that I still considered a really good friend. I was in a bad spot living with my mother because she was emotionally controlling and abusive. He was in a spot where his...
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Are these signs enough to doubt him? in case yes what shall I do?

So i ve been datin this person for months now we were doing fine at first going on dates and him bringing me gifts whenever he has the chance. As any couple we ofc had arguements and fights but we overcome it and we still...
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Can you be traditional without being traditional?

It’s fairly common these days for splitting the bill with first dates. Of course expecting a traditional partner requires you to be more traditional as well; however, considering the possibility of expectations such as a...
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Girls, is it a bad idea for me to ask her "is this a date?" When we go out again?

We knew each other for a while, but we just went out for the first time about two weeks ago. We went to dinner, and then watched a movie, but there was nothing obvious about it being a date besides me paying for our...
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A few things I’ve recently learned about women’s rights that I think everyone should know

The following list is of NINE things a woman couldn’t do in 1971 – yes the date is correct 1971. You can thank RBG. In 1971 a woman could not: 1. Get a Credit Card in her own name – it wasn’t until 1974 that a law forced...
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Why does the "cougar" stereotype of older women who date younger men persist so strongly when almost none of it is true?

As a woman engaged to a significantly younger man (I'm 42, he's 26) I get super annoyed whenever someone calls me a 'cougar'. The term 'cougar' implies a lot of stereotypes I've found to be mostly (or almost entirely)...
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How do I act like a true lady?

Let me start with a little context. The guy I am currently dating was super shy about asking me out. I wasn't that into him because he sometimes came off as a jerk, but gave him a chance since I knew he acted like that...
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Guys, what is your opinion on this?

Background: so i bought a instant pot vortex oven. I want to get rid of my microwave and put the oven there instead. The microwave ia a big one and the oven is kind of heavy too. I thought about asking a guy that i like....
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He insists on paying every time?

I started seeing this wonderful guy, but the thing is that he always wants to pay for everything. For the first and second date, it was okay, and I really appreciated it. But now it's making me uncomfortable. I feel like...
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Why would he do this and will he regret it?

I was engaged for 4 years to my this guy. Throughout the relationship I noticed that despite doing regular things that couples do he was always looking at lingerie models online as well has making comments about my...
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Should I date a girl who has a high paying career if I am currently unemployed?

I just graduated and am looking for work but I have to take an internship first and then hopefully get work after, so next year I hope to find a great job. I met a girl and she has everything together and she makes great...
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Men who pay for first date, do you only pay if you fancy the woman?

I am aware there is plenty of men who don't believe in paying for dates so this is mainly to the men who do pay but feel free to answer your opinion regardless, but if you're a guy who does pay do you only tend to pay if...
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I only pay if i fancy the woman.
I pay regardless if i find them attractive or not.
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The True Origin and Intent of the Term 'INCEL'

Okay, so I came across another #INCEL question (this one asked by a presumably self-labelled INCEL, but it was not specified), and frankly, the responses prompted this take. Some things need to be clarified. Let me first...
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Girl paying for everything?

Guyss I need your opinion. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 months and recently, he has started his own business. In the beginning of our relationship we used to split the bill on dates which was fine by...
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How to gain confidence in the best income I'm capable of, when it isn't the highest or best or enough to really live single?

I've been trying really hard the past year to make enough money to survive well alone before trying to date people again. But, humbly, I haven't been able to. And I'm starting to get grey hairs in my facial hair now. I...
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Confessions of a Ladies Man: Asking a Lady Out on A Date

I have given you 2 REAL LIFE examples this week on how to ask girls out on dates. Here is my advice. Be Confident, Playful, and Excited! You can see in the screen shots that I am as playful and flirtacious as I am on a...
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