I question how much he really ever liked you to begin with honestly. Nothing I've read here suggests he ever cared about you in my opinion. And right from the first date he started verbally abusing you. I'm not trying to be hurtful, I'm sure you're hurting enough, but I think he kept you around for whatever selfish purpose, but never cared much for you. Verbal abuse is a way that these types of guys "control" women, playing on their insecurities. I think you're better off without him for sure. Advice, if any guy ever says anything abusive like that, run! No guy that genuinely cares about you would ever put you down like that.
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Even when you feel at your worst moment in life just remember there are approximately 7B people in the world and at least 1% of the population will like you or find you attractive... shitt look at me... used to be a player, a hoe, a sugar baby and a bad person in general. Ended up falling in love and getting hurt... after that lost all my fear of death and 2 years ago had a car accident that made me loose my marriage, went from 182 pounds of muscle to 116... marriage ended, had to learn to use my right leg again. Don't know if ill have any kids because since the accident i haven't been able to ejaculate and with all those problems now I'm 160pounds, work with a full body armour lvl 4 go to school and work as a bodyguard risking my life every day. I still found my dream girl and she worries about me and shows me love and tells me how much she needs me in her life every day. If i was able to find love with all my flaws and deffects anyone can do it too!
I am so sorry that you're going through this. Please think about the future before you pursue anything further with a man like this. As it will get worse if you don't do things to his liking. Which is ridiculous as people have high expectations not even they can live up to. I have a question for you, were you always curvy? Or has your body changed over time? Is he only hinting now that he wants you to change? I would say ditch the douche but then again it's your choice as this type of behaviour will continue and get worse over time. So it's up to you. Move on to someone better or change for him even if you lost the weight you still won't be able to live up to his standards...
The fact that he kept saying things about your weight and making fun of it that you are pregnant, that's rude. A lot of men love curvy woman more than thin. You deserve better and glad you didn't marry him and he showed you all this.
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In truth I do not know. I wish I was your brother and lived close by. I would have knocked the *unt spark out!
Please ignore that comment if it offends.. I just don't like people who bully or abuse others and feel a duty to wrong a right.According to your story he was a disrespectful asshole from the start. Hyoid saw the red flags but kept ignoring them. He was an asshole that did asshole shit, no surprise there! The real question is how low is your self worth that you didn’t immediately say, “I deserve better.”?
He was a piece of shit from day one and you let him treat you poorly from the jump... I don't know how you could be surprised.
He's shallow. You dodged a bullet.
I don't know that _most_ men appreciate curves.
Some do. I don't. Generally those struggling to feed themselves like curves.F him.
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