There is a long story but my ex asked me to be his girlfriend then we got into our first fight and he left. We both were mad about something but I tried to be there for him and show him I care in a loving way but he was furious over something small. He later left and I cried as he left bc he was hinting to breaking up.
the next day he broke up with me. I was devastated but I told him to come get his things and he did and that was it. I blocked him. Well I seen he was back on the site I met him on 4 days laterand I just lost it. I called wanting to talk and we did. He told me he didn’t want a relationship. I was hurt by the things he was saying, it was hurtful and immature. I only started to cry when I asked how could he walk away so easily, why can’t you at least tell me goodbye the right way. He hung up and blocked me.
Where I went wrong was I called him the next day (I have devices with different phone numbers). He answered and sounded so upset with me. I forgot what I said but I was calm. He told me i had stuff to do that day so I hung up. Thinking we would talk later, I found out he blocked me. I called again and asked him to please treat me with respect in this time, this isn’t right. I also left a voicemail. I looked pathetic. What he was doing was wrong but I feel I gave away my power trying to communicate with someone who didn’t want me. Im not crazy, I was hurting. I left him alone but will he ever apologize
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I think it doesn’t matter how he feels at this point. It seems like he has very little patience to make a relationship work because he didn’t really want one in the first place. You shouldn’t strive to want a man that isn’t willing to work through issues with you. He’s the red flag here , he just gaslighted his flaws onto you.
He will regret and be crawling back unless he had a back-up girl going the whole time.
This was almost a month ago. Haven’t heard from him since
i'm sorry to say but most likely not. i'm sorry he put you through that