I been thinking of him even though we have broken up, but part of me want to text him and see how he's doing. Should I text him?

[Anonymous]

[Oliverlogan263]

Eh I don't know, that could go either way really. On one hand, it might be nice to check in and see how he's doing since you obviously still care about him. And who knows, maybe talking would make you realize you're both still into each other. But there's also a risk that reaching out could just make getting over him harder if he's totally moved on or you end up arguing.

Personally I'd say only text him if you're okay with the possibility of no longer having feelings for each other being confirmed. Don't do it if you're hoping talking will automatically get you back together. Maybe give it some more time first so you're more over those breakup feelings before checking in as just friends. Could also depend on how things ended - was it messy or relatively amicable? If it was bad maybe wait a while longer so things can cool off. At the end of the day follow your gut - if you really want to know how he's doing then a casual text can't hurt. But be prepared for any response. Good luck!

[Pterodon]

I wouldn’t. I know you miss him but it will pass with time

[Anonymous]

Of course you are, that’s part of it, but you don’t just cave because you’re struggling or having moments of weakness. You find good distractions, hang out with friends or hobbies, and remember why you are broken up in the first place.

[rosemilk]

for what reason tho? it won't change anything. and you may end up sadder than you were

[petitedollbabee]

No, move on.