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The same girl in my HS hates me for the longest. We're now HS seniors.

Ever since 7th grade, she would start with her rude remarks, spread false rumors, ridicule me in the class and her group of friends would isolate me. It got to the point, she literally wanted to fight me. I only replied back with a punch once. We were threatened with a suspension, she starts crying, fakes an apology and supposedly that was it. Nope, she proceeded to faking a friendship just to avoid trouble, along with giving me a fake number and fake address.

By the following year, she would continue with the rude comments or scream ''OMG or EWWW'' in disgust. I had enough and just recently told her ''OMG nothing, you got a problem with me again, we can fix this right now and this time I don't give a damn if I we get suspended. In fact I'm looking forward for it. And don't be crying crocodile tears.'' She said nothing but walked away.

Honestly, can our gender be worse bullies than guys? If this was between guys, they fight, get it solved and that's it. Either they become friends or ignored each other but at least have some level of respect. They go on into faking friendships nor apologies. She kept going on with that hate for 5 years and we're nearly adults by now.

I went to a social gathering to network with other folks who travel solo or in group, basically to learn from each others experiences. This guy came up to me and started talking. Over the next 30 mins, he just went on and on about his job, his apartment that he owns and the three side businesses he runs. He also tried inquiring if I was interested in having kids later in my life. Basically, he was selling himself and trying to gauge if I fit in his "requirements". He happened to ask for my phone number and I gave it. I know that I have to learn to say no and I have decided what to do next time some guy asks and I'm not willing to give. Out of being polite, I just continued the conversation and at one point, I moved into a group of guys and girls to avoid talking to him one-on-one. I did notice that he was also exchanging numbers with another girl in the group. Seems like a player.

Anyways, so he texted me the time I shared my number and I didn't read those messages indicating to him that I'm not interested. He texted me again a few hours ago asking how my week is going and if I'm free for coffee on Sunday morning. I haven't opened the message to read it as it flashed on my phone screen and I was able to read it there. So, now he thinks that I haven't read his message.

I do not want to talk or meet him. Should I just ghost him? I know its not mature thing to do but I'm done being nice already.